Colombian Porn Star Offers Sex Tips To Men

Everyone wants to be better at sex. Even Shaggy.

As such, it is always worth listening when somebody dispenses sex tips, and who better to dispense sex tips than an experienced porn star?

Esperanza Gomez revealed the main thing men get wrong while appearing on YouTube chat show The Juanpis Live Show.

Porn star Esperanza Gomez has revealed her top sex tip for men. Credit: CEN
Porn star Esperanza Gomez has revealed her top sex tip for men. Credit: CEN

For the 39-year-old Colombian, the most common mistake men make is jumping straight into the deep end without a bit of a warm up.

She said: "Many men never bother to learn how to do it properly or how to seduce a woman. A lot of them just want to cut to the chase.

"Women want to be told things to awaken our desire. We love to be touched and to hear a man's tone. I love a man's seductive voice."

So get working on that seductive voice of yours chaps.

Gomez says it's all about the foreplay. Credit: CEN
Gomez says it's all about the foreplay. Credit: CEN

Gomez revealed that she and her husband specifically get themselves worked up for the main event by wanking in front of each other. The porn star then offered some advice for single women.

She said: "You need to know what you want from a man. If you want someone as a lover, then go for it."

But while Gomez may now be extremely experienced in the bedroom, if she'd had it her way, she'd probably know more about growing crops than rooting.

In the interview, the adult film star explained that she wanted to study agronomy when she was growing up, but her dad dissuaded her, claiming such a career would lead to a lifetime of poverty... It's unclear though whether he instead pointed her in the direction of pornography.

Gomez admitted that she initially found the move to porn quite difficult, as she was quite shy, however, she claimed her husband was eventually able to make her feel relaxed in front of the cameras.

Gomez says men should use their 'seductive voice' in the bedroom. Credit: CEN
Gomez says men should use their 'seductive voice' in the bedroom. Credit: CEN

But now we know it is important to ensure a woman hears a man's 'seductive voice' during sex, it's time to figure out exactly what to say. After all, it's no use perfecting your sexiest Patrick Stewart voice if you then go and say, 'Oh my todger is ready to do a dirty deposit'.

Luckily, a 2017 study revealed the most common things women like to hear while doing the deed. It turns out top of the pile is 'I'm the daddy' and other dad-based variants... Which is a bit disturbing/Freudian.

Commenting on the tightness of the woman's vagina and how much you are enjoying the sex is also popular, apparently.

So there you have it, that is all you need to know to become a sex king - simply talk about being the daddy in a seductive voice.

You. Are. Welcome.

Featured Image Credit: CEN

Jake Massey

Jake Massey is a journalist at LADbible. He graduated from Newcastle University, where he learnt a bit about media and a lot about living without heating. After spending a few years in Australia and New Zealand, Jake secured a role at an obscure radio station in Norwich, inadvertently becoming a real-life Alan Partridge in the process. From there, Jake became a reporter at the Eastern Daily Press. Jake enjoys playing football, listening to music and writing about himself in the third person.

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