Woman Quit Her Job As A School Teacher To Become Full Time Dominatrix

A dominatrix has revealed how she left her 'normal' life behind in search of 'excitement' and now lives with two 'slaves' who wait on her hand and foot.

Thirty-five-year-old Dahlia Rain was married and had a full-time job as a school teacher, when she began to grow tired of her 'vanilla lifestyle' and started looking into the fetish scene.

Dahlia, from New Jersey, told Barcroft TV: "Everybody comes into fetish at different times of their life. I did the normal housewife thing but there were things that were missing. I wanted some more excitement and they were things [my ex-husband] didn't want.

"I started meeting more kinky people and going to fetish parties and then it just became part of my life."

She now spends her time making her submissive 'slaves' carry out tasks - from cooking and cleaning to walking the dog - in return for 'rewards'.

As well as her two 'subs', Chris and Mike (also known as Fluffy), Dahlia has a boyfriend John, 41, who says he is well looked after by the pair when he comes around to visit.

"People ask 'what's the difference between a sub and a boyfriend?'," she said. "And there are big differences. I don't have sex with my subs, there's no sexual relationship at all. That's a fantasy.

"I get a lot of emails and messages from people wanting to be my sex slave, and be tied up in my bedroom 24-hours a day, but that's not the type of dominance I do."

Dahlia says no money exchanges hands between her and the men.

"There are lifestyle dominatrixes, and there are professional dominatrixes - I am both," Dahlia said.

"When people schedule a session, they are giving me money to be in my hands for an hour, whereas lifestyle slaves are just giving themselves into my care permanently. They might pay for things, like my shopping, but they are not paying me.

"Fluffy is not paying per hour for my time. That would be very expensive. He wouldn't be able to afford live at that point."

Credit: Barcroft
Credit: Barcroft

As a reward for doing whatever she asks, the men are treated by being bound, gagged or whipped.

Dahlia continued: "Play is always a reward for them, but they have to earn it - it's not easy."

Mike/Fluffy, 35, said: "I like making her happy. It feels good when I see a smile on her face, and she takes care of me.

"She rewards me in a lot of different ways. For example, the other night, I wanted to sleep by the foot of her bed, and she said I could, and it was great. I was very happy." He's easily pleased, isn't he?

Dahlia's partner John thinks he and Dahlia are a perfect match, saying: "I had run into a lot of girls who were attracted to me because at first I seemed very confident, or arrogant, but over time that would become an issue. They tried to diminish me and make me feel bad about it.

"When I met Dahlia, I was like 'this girl has been called Goddess all day for six years - that must build your ego up to be really strong and healthy. That person will not be someone trying to chop me down'."

Opening up about their relationship, he added: "In the summer time we spend a lot of time lounging on the roof and we think 'this would be so much better if we had champagne or watermelon' and I can just call a slave and he'll bring us the champagne and watermelon."

Credit: Barcroft
Credit: Barcroft

Meanwhile, Dahlia isn't just inundated with offers from people begging to be dominated, she also gets requests from men who want her to ruin their lives. For real.

She said: "I've had people say, 'I will pay you $5,000 to ruin my life. Please contact my wife and tell her that I am a pervert - this is her phone number'.

"I don't want to ruin your life. I am not into ruining lives, but you can find someone who will do that.

"I want to make lives better. I want to make you more efficient, happier, fitter - let's improve your life rather than make you homeless in your car or on the street."

Other sub, Chris, lives full-time with Dahlia, while Fluffy splits his time between Las Vegas and Dahila's house. The pair met six years ago and were friends before the relationship developed into a sub/dom set up.

"People were taking advantage of him," she said. "When you have a submissive personality, people will walk all over you. If you are a sub, you are safer being owned, because then you have guidance, and someone sticking up for you.

"It's something I plan on doing forever. I'm going to be an old lady with slaves pushing my wheelchair."

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Claire Reid

Claire Reid is a journalist at LADbible. Claire graduated from Liverpool John Moores University with a BA in journalism. She’s previously worked at Trinity Mirror. Since joining LADbible, Claire has worked on pieces for the UOKM8? mental health campaign, the Yemen crisis, life in the Calais Jungle as well as a profile of a man who is turning himself into a cyborg.

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