Life As A Male Escort: 'One Man Wanted To Sniff My Feet While I Had Sex With His Wife'

From sailing in the Mediterranean to having sex on balconies and four-hour bondage sessions, one man says he is living the dream - and gets paid thousands to do it.

Whether it's taking women on dinner dates or giving them the 'boyfriend experience' for weddings, his job is to be whatever his clients want.

Speaking to LADbible, the professional Lothario - who wishes to remain nameless - claims he has always been 'a bit of a ladies' man' and being an escort gives him the opportunity to meet lots of them - around 300 up until now.

"I started three years ago," he said. "I've always loved women and adventure. I was just online and thought: 'why don't I give it a try' and meet some women. I put my picture and bio online and two weeks later had my first client.

"In a good month I can make £10,000 - the minimum is about £4,000."

He adds: "Only one friend knows what I do. I have a regular job as well so it's not something I would tell anyone. My family don't even know - which can be hard to hide sometimes."

Women contact him through his profile on escort site, Gentlement4Hire - they then exchange messages, with pictures of the client and suggestions of what they want to do on their date.

This is to make sure they're both 'on the same page'.

And though they're generally pretty tame, women regularly pay him to fulfill some of their wildest fantasies.

"I've slept with around 100 women during my time as an escort. The strangest request that I've gone through with was a high flying business woman who wanted me to go to her office dressed as a personal trainer. She wanted a '50 Shades Of Grey experience' in her office. That was really fun.

The professional Lothario says he was once asked to give a client a 50 Shades experience. Credit: Universal
The professional Lothario says he was once asked to give a client a 50 Shades experience. Credit: Universal

"She wanted to be dominated. I think because she in such a powerful position in a company where she always takes decisions and everyone is always saying yes to her, she wanted to be on the other side."

He added: "In total it lasted about three or four hours."

But there are some things which he says he just won't do.

"One guy got in touch with me and said he wanted me to have sex with his wife while he sniffed my shoes and my feet. He insisted quite a few times but at the end I had to block him because I really wasn't into it.

"There are people who get pleasure from seeing their wives or girlfriends with another man. There are a lot of them, actually. I know people might think there's something weird about it and I wouldn't like that.

"I do get a lot of extreme requests and in a normal life I might do them with my girlfriend but I can't professionally. For example some people have wanted to be filmed or have sex over a Skype call so the husband can see, but at the end of the day I need to be very careful about my privacy."

Over the past three years he has gained a number of 'regulars' who whisk him way to the best hotels in some of the world's most exotic countries.

"I've pretty much been all around the world. The thing is that when you have clients who become regulars - we are talking about very wealthy clients - you almost become their boyfriend. I've been almost everywhere in America, Argentina, everywhere in Europe.

"You go for weddings, parties...I've been sailing in Crete for two weeks. Literally all around the world.

"The most fun date I've ever had was in the Maldives. We went to an amazing resort for 10 days and had lots of fun. In Vegas we went for a helicopter ride around the Grand Canyon for a whole day, I'd never done anything like that in my life.

He has travelled around the world, often being whisked away to exotic locations. Credit: PA
He has travelled around the world, often being whisked away to exotic locations. Credit: PA

"So you get to go to these amazing Michelin star restaurants, stay in the best suites - it's like being a movie star."

He added: "These are really wealthy women and sometimes you just think, wow. And you get paid on top of that. It's a power trip and that's why at some point it would be very difficult to quit. You just get used to it."

And though it hasn't happened yet, he is always cautious about being caught out.

"I've never been caught yet. These women don't live in London and we usually meet up in the city or go away on holiday but it's something that is always on my mind. The fear that we might."

These are just a handful of the women he dates, however. Most of his clients are 'normal' women who might be low on confidence after breaking up with their boyfriend - some have never even had sex before.

"Lots of the women I see are quite lonely, which often is the case in a city like London. Others are unhappy with their love life," he says.

"Sometimes they have just split up with their boyfriend or are divorced and they want to get back in the dating game but hate the idea of having a profile on Tinder or something.

"For them it's more honest - in a way - to pay someone who is a professional to go on a date and have fun rather than waste time on dating apps.

"It's much more straightforward and are sure they can have what they want - more fun with no strings attached."

He added: "Young girls in their twenties who have wanted to lose their virginity have also contacted me. In total there's been about four or five women who have wanted that and it's something quite precious."

He says he has become accustomed to the high life and it would be hard to quit. Credit: PA
He says he has become accustomed to the high life and it would be hard to quit. Credit: PA

But he says it's not all about sex.

He adds: "That's a common misconception. The majority don't want you for sex, they want you to be their date for a party or a wedding and yes, sometimes I do sleep with them but it's different from men - who do generally hire an escort just for sex."

With such an intimate job, emotions can sometimes run high though, and some clients struggle to understand that it's just work for him.

"The hardest part is when you realise they've become attached to you," he says. "It's a bit sad because at the end of the day I can't give them what they want.

"That's the most difficult part of the job for me. I just want them to have fun and leave me feeling more confident and get back to dating someone in the 'real world'."

Since he began working as an escort, he says he hasn't met anyone with whom he could see a future but admits he can't carry on this life forever.

"Women have asked me to quit the business and go out with them. They've offered me cars and things and to be their boyfriend, but I just can't do it as I'm not attached to that person.

"I will do it for as long as I enjoy it, once I find it boring and it loses its excitement I will quit. It's not happened so far but it will one day. I've spoken to a few other escorts and they said that at some point you either find a partner or you just get bored with it all.

"But I still find it as exciting as when I started."

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Dominic Smithers

After graduating from Leeds University with a degree in French and History, Dom went onto gain an NCTJ journalism qualification. Since then he has worked as a reporter at the Manchester Evening News and the Macclesfield Express, covering breaking news, court, sports, and politics.

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