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Woman In Polyamorous Relationship Reveals They Have 'Sex Schedule'

Woman In Polyamorous Relationship Reveals They Have 'Sex Schedule'

The 'thruple' have been together since January 2019

Claire Reid

Claire Reid

A woman in a polyamorous relationship has revealed they use a 'sex schedule' and plan date nights in advance to make it work.

Melanie Moseley, 56, from Portland in Oregon, got into a relationship with couple Cliff Rees, 69, and Charity Joy, 45, in January 2019 after meeting them both separately.

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Melanie admits that prior to her polyamorous relationship she used to be a 'serial cheater' but is now happy with the way things are.

The trio have an agreement which outlines their date night and sex schedule.

Because there's nothing sexier than a schedule, eh?

The schedule sets out the days on which Melanie can spend time alone with Cliff or Charity as well as days where they spend time together as a throuple.

As well as her relationship with Cliff and Charity, Melanie can also date anyone else who takes her fancy as they agree to an open relationship.

Melanie said: "In the past I was a serial cheater, but now I've found a deep connection.

"I didn't expect a relationship to work with two people.

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"But we're great communicators and we make sure that we schedule quality time with each other.

"I also have the freedom to date other people. Our relationship is really special."

Melanie says she met Cliff first, back in March 2018, while at a salsa dancing class and felt an instant chemistry and seven months later met Charity at a dance show.

Melanie admits she 'fancied' Charity right away but forgot to ask for her number.

The trio were all reunited again when Melanie bumped into the couple, who had been dating for around a month at this point, in January 2019.

Melanie said: "I recognised them both immediately. They explained they were on a date and had been seeing each other for a month.

"I joined them and we all gelled so easily. Out of the blue, they invited me on a date. I was so excited."

One week later, the throuple had sex before Cliff and Charity explained they were polyamorous and looking for a long-term partner.

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Melanie says they have since fallen in love and she moved into their home in March 2019.

To keep things running smoothly, the trio have a list of ground rules as well as a schedule for when they all see each other.

Melanie said: "We became an open polyamorous triad.

"But I still wanted my freedom.

"Cliff and Charity explained they already had a written list of rules for their relationship.

"I loved the idea of having clear expectations, so I suggested we had a verbal agreement concerning all three of us.

"So, we decided I'd have my own bedroom downstairs.

"We all agreed we could still sleep with other people, as long as we practiced safe sex.

"We also allocated date nights.

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"From then on, I had sex with Cliff whenever we felt like it on set weekdays, while Charity and I had alone time on Fridays.

"On Sundays, we go out for romantic dinners as a trio and have threesomes together in Charity and Cliff's bedroom."

Melanie says her parents, who are in their 70s, took a while to come around to the idea but have both since been supportive.

She added: "Although we sleep with other people, we mean the world to each other.

"I couldn't be happier."

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Topics: Relationships, US