Woman Shares Shocking Messages She Received From Guy She Met Online

A woman has shared the shocking texts she received from a bloke she'd been chatting with online - check it out in the clip below:

TikTok user Sydney Weise, or @sydneymwiese as she's known on the platform, shared the messages in a clip with the caption 'this broke my heart' and it's since gone viral.

Getting off to a terrible start, the man wrote: "I honestly just want to make sure you're not big like that.

"I don't need a model but I just don't want to get catfished again."

In response to his message, Sydney asked: "Big like what?"

To which he said: "Like big big."

Now, while no one wants to be catfished - and with internet dating you do run the risk of that - there really is no excuse for body shaming and I think we can all agree this man did not handle any of this very well at all.

When Sydney then announced she'd rather leave the date and stop chatting, he asked: "Bc I have a preference?"

This prompted Sydney to politely reply: "It's okay that you do. I'm cool with it but I'm not your girl tbh."

Unrelenting, the man asked: "What do you mean? I don't need a model bc rn I'm chunky so."

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With Sydney then firmly ended her part of the conversation by texting: "I mean bye, bro."

To which the picky fella replied: "Ok ok ok."

Fellow TikTok users have rushed in to slate the man for his rude messages, with one person writing: "Good riddance! You can do way better."

Another said: "Preferences are fine, but the way he talked about it was so incredibly off-putting. Glad you walked away."

A third posted: "So people saying it's not body shaming. It is. How many can say they've been asked the same question the same way? From different guys."

Others praised Sydney for her response - one TikToker wrote: "She dealt with this so nicely.

"Y'all want to defend men having preferences but won't respect our preference not to date them because of that."

Another wrote: "I applaud you for your mature response. Shows that you love and respect yourself."

Topics: Relationships, TikTok

Claire Reid

Claire is a journalist at LADbible who, after dossing around for a few years, went to Liverpool John Moores University. She graduated with a degree in Journalism and a whole load of debt. When not writing words in exchange for money she is usually at home watching serial killer documentaries surrounded by cats. You can contact Claire at [email protected]

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