Whether you want to admit it or not, if you've got one, you're insecure about your penis. It's just a fact. Not that I'd know but if it's too big then you're worried you're hurting them and if it's too small you're worried if they can actually feel anything.
Don't worry lads, we're all friends here.
Now, if there was anyone out there who could be an 'authority' on penises and the myths that surround them, it'd be someone who on their very own Instagram account, calls themselves a 'professional whore'. Her words not mine.
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Blithe works at Sheri's Ranch, a legal brothel in Pahrump, Nevada. She's worked there a number of years now and has even started contributing to the brothel's very own blog.
In her latest post, she's discussed in detail some of the 'myths' surrounding penises. Now, it'd be easy to dismiss what she says because it's her job to do stuff with them but let's be honest, that kind of makes her an expert.
So here we go...
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Myth 1 - There is such a thing as an 'ideal' penis size
I've seen a lot of cocks. They come in all shapes, lengths, widths, and colors. Some bend upwards, some downwards, some curve to the side. Some are almost the size of my forearm, some the size of my thumb. I've seen penises with a sharp bend like a water faucet, and penises shaped like a mushroom, with a large head on a smaller shaft. While some online resources will try to trick people into believing that there is such a thing as an "ideal penis," I'm here to tell you that as long as your penis is healthy, it's ideal for sex and is capable of pleasing a woman.
Myth 2: The size does matter when it comes to pleasing a woman
Again, this is false. Having a thick or long cock doesn't mean you're automatically great at sex. In my experience what matters most is reading your partner's body, being sympathetic to her unique needs, and paying attention to what she responds favorably to. No matter what the size, if you apply pressure in the right areas or use the right rhythm it's going to make her feel good. Also, you can and should use more than just your penis to please a woman. A lot of research has shown that many women can't achieve orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. That's why it's an absolute must to use your mouth and hands during sex, as well as experimenting with toys (a favorite of mine.) To put it simply: when it comes to sexual satisfaction, a big penis is a poor substitute for a compassionate and audacious lover.
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Myth 3: Women gossip
When women do kiss and tell, I've found that the focus is almost always on a man's performance, and not on his penis size at all. We are much more interested in hearing about the experience as a whole. Talking about what tricks or toys were used is a lot more interesting than discussing size. Honestly, when another woman describes good sex to me she'll very rarely mention the size or appearance of her partner's penis. Since we're not all that concerned about a guy's penis size, maybe men shouldn't be as concerned as they are about it either.
Good luck out there, lads.
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