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Sex Workers Open Up About The Difference Between Business And Pleasure

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Sex Workers Open Up About The Difference Between Business And Pleasure

Whether you're using the service or not, you can't deny that you're not interested what sex workers get up to after working hours.

Even my nephew could tell you that sex workers sell their bodies for a living. However, little is known about a sex workers' personal life. Many may wish to believe that all sex workers are drug-using, filthy whore bags, but those people aren't just inaccurate, they're also dicks.

Posting in a Reddit thread, escorts, sugar babies and prostitutes discussed their sex lives when they're on and off the job to give readers an insight into the way they go about their business.

One of the entries was from a woman who charges older men for sexual pleasures. She admitted that she was more 'affectionate' with her clients than with her boyfriend.

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She said: "Many older men want a sugar baby because they feel lonely - their relationships have fizzled out and their children have grown up and moved away.

"So they turn to sugar babies not just to satisfy their sex drive, but to fulfil their need for intimacy and affection.

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"When I have sex with a sugar daddy, my goal is to make him feel like I'm almost in love with him.

"I'm far more gentle, there's a lot more kissing involved and my focus is 100 percent on his desires - but I do frequently orgasm from that kind of sex."

She even went as far as to say that she orgasms more from sex with her clients than with her boyfriend - poor lad, I wonder if he knows that.

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On the other end of the spectrum, a male escort claimed that having sex with his clients was less intimate than with romantic partners.

He said: "The sex is pretty different as it's just part of the role without intimacy.

"Although you can still enjoy both the act itself and the 'job well done' feeling, believe it or not.

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"If you get on well with a repeat client they can almost become friends, there's genuine liking there on a rapport level."

One ex-sex worker wrote about how she didn't find selling her body enjoyable. She suggested that there was a lack of respect and understanding of boundaries when she was in the business.

She said: "The biggest difference is whether or not I can relax.

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"My boyfriend would never try to gag me or switch holes or pinch me, but the men who would pay me didn't care.

"It's so different now. My boyfriend loves me, I feel so safe.

"I wish I'd never done it. I don't know why I ever said it was easy money, it f***** me up pretty bad."

Meanwhile, another person added: "The biggest difference is the amount of drugs everyone is on, at least in my experience."

So there you have it, lads, sex workers are more than objects who will 'get you off' for cash. It's a heavily stigmatised subject and I want to know if you would go out with a sex worker? Comments welcome below.

Hamish Kilburn
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