A Sperm Donor For A Lesbian Couple Ended Up Bedding One Of Them And Fell In Love
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The world is a bit of a missed up place. We know that, and we've pretty much come to accept it. Being apart of it we kind of just come to terms with it and move on. Which is why what I'm about to tell you probably won't shock you as much as it should.
Unfortunately, lesbians and gays cannot have their own offspring. But there are ways around it, such as sperm and egg donors. A lad, who was chosen to be a sperm donor by his lesbian friend, wrote to Dear Deidre to explain how after donating his sperm, he fell in love with his friends lesbian lover. Hang tight, this is an odd one.
Writing for advice, he mentioned how after celebrating the news that he'd help the couple get pregnant, they got a bit merry and he ended up having sex with the soon to be mother.
"I volunteered to be a sperm donor to help a lesbian couple. I have known one of the girls for years and was aware she was gay. She told me last year that she had met someone special. Im 28, the girls are 26 and 24.
Then my friend the older girl started talking about wanting a child. She said they had decided that her partner should be the one to get pregnant. I said I hoped it went well and she texted back to say she wanted me to be their sperm donor.
I went to theirs for the weekend to talk about it. When I met my friends partner I was totally blown away. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. We all had a lot to drink that evening. My friend was very drunk, so we put her to bed. Her girlfriend then suggested finishing the bottle of wine and we went back downstairs.
I told her how beautiful she was and I kissed her. She responded and we had sex, which was brilliant. Shes 12 weeks pregnant now. Were texting loads and Ive told her Im in love with her. She says she is confused about what she wants.
This week she told me shed had sex with another guy and I was too cut up even to respond," he wrote to Dear Deidre.
It is a pretty messed up situation to be in. Deidre's advice was to give her space and let her decide what she wants. To be fair, she's actually carrying his baby, he has many foundations to build on.
Alternatively, he could fall in love with someone with a matching sexuality.