Woman Explains Why It's Important To Have Sex On The First Date
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A woman has lifted the lid on why it's important to have sex on the first date or at least very early into dating.
Eve uploaded a TikTok video to her account and told a story about a guy she had been seeing for a while.
She explained how they decided to get to know each other before getting naked.
The clip has been seen more than 25 million times and the woman said she was enjoying going on dates with the unnamed bloke.
However, when it came time for them to make the beast with two backs, something strange happened.
"I recently was seeing this guy - we were taking things slow," she said in the video. "We probably had 10 to 15 dates before actually having sex. Before we had sex, I asked him, 'So, what do you like during sex, do you have any kinks?'
"He was like, 'No, I don't really have any kinks, nothing crazy.'"
"So we go to have sex, at first it was fine. His d**k was fine, he was fine, and then he starts to dirty talk.
"Now, I know what you're thinking. 'Dirty talk is sexy, dirty talk is hot.' I agree, completely. But this man did not do your typical - he could have said anything other than what he said.
"Let me reenact this for you. I am him: 'Yeah, yeah, you want me to get you pregnant? You want me to put a baby in you so everyone knows you're mine?!'"
Look, no one is here to kink shame, however that is one hell of a phrase to say during sex, especially when the receiver thinks you don't like anything kinky and has spent a considerable amount of time with you.
Eve continued telling her horrifying story: "Then he was like 'talk back, talk back, say something'.
"What the f**k do you want me to say? 'Yeah, you wanna pay for my abortion? Yeah, you wanna be a single dad?'. Months of getting to know this guy, getting deep with him, getting personal with him...out the door.
"Have sex on the first date, you heard it here first."
Eve's final message sparked a massive conversation about sexual compatibility between partners and how, for many people, this can be a huge deal breaker in a relationship.
Some people might have the 'Three Date Rule', where they abstain from sex until after the third meeting, and others have all sorts of rules for holding out.
While they might be beneficial, it all could come crumbling down if it doesn't work out in the bedroom.