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Study revealed how often couples in a happy relationship have sex

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Published 15:23 19 Oct 2024 GMT+1

Study revealed how often couples in a happy relationship have sex

Here's how much sex you should be having a week, according to a study

Anish Vij

Anish Vij

If you think you might not be having enough sex, then you came to the right place.

There are plenty of TikTok couples out there who will often show off their 'perfect' relationship online.

It makes you wonder if you're heading in the right direction, or not.

But there's two things wrong with comparing yourself to strangers on social media.

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One, they are just showing you the good bits, and number two, their content is only there to get views.

People statistically have less sex as they get older (Getty Stock Images)
People statistically have less sex as they get older (Getty Stock Images)

“We have lots of expectations about how relationships are ‘supposed’ to look,” Dr. Logan Levkoff, a PhD specialist in human sexuality, told NBC.

“Many times, this fairy-tale model doesn’t mimic our lives or our realities.”

In terms of how much sex you should be having, the expert says there is no ‘normal’ amount, and it depends on couple to couple.

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That being said, a 2015 study used a sample size of 30,000 Americans over 40 years to take a look at how much sex an average person needed to 'be happy'.

It was determined that having sex with your partner once a week keeps you fulfilled and those who did it more than once weren't much happier.

Five reasons why you might not be having enough sex

Brits on average have sex 1.1 times in a week (Getty Stock Images)
Brits on average have sex 1.1 times in a week (Getty Stock Images)

Stress

We probably don't realise the impact stress has on day-to-day life, from feeling overwhelmed, irritable and depressed.

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Dr Levkoff says all of the above can damper your sex life.

Body insecurity

Dr. Sanam Hafeez, a clinical psychologist from New York, explains: "Body insecurity is a common cause, especially when it's not only about appearance, but the feeling of being bloated and just not at your best."

Lacking confidence by being shamed or even embarrassed by the way you think you look can lead to a lack of sexual intimacy.

If you're struggling, then think about speaking to a professional about your concerns.

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People in their late 20s are more likely than any other age group to have regular sex (Getty Stock Images)
People in their late 20s are more likely than any other age group to have regular sex (Getty Stock Images)

Chronic medical issues

“Chronic conditions, like rheumatoid arthritis, pain, fatigue, stiffness, swelling, vaginal dryness and limited function, can also impact libido,” says Levkoff.

Smart devices

Opting to watch the latest TV series, instead of asking your partner how their day went will not be helping.

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Taking an interest in your partner can lead to a closer relationship, and a more active sex life.

“The irony of technology is that while it makes us feel intellectually more connected to people, it can isolate us even further from one another when it comes to intimacy,” says Levkoff.

Waning connection

Taking time out for yourselves, rather than prioritising the kids, might be what's needed.

“Check in throughout the day. A kissy face emoji or a quick message sending love keeps the connection going,” says Hafeez.

“Also, something as simple as walking together after dinner without phones, or dancing, can get good brain chemicals flowing.”

The full study titled 'Sexual Frequency Predicts Greater Well-Being, But More is Not Always Better' is available here.

Featured Image Credit: Getty Stock Images

Topics: Dating trends, Sex and Relationships, Lifestyle

Anish Vij
Anish Vij

Anish is a Journalist at LADbible Group and is a GG2 Young Journalist of the Year 2025. He has a Master's degree in Multimedia Journalism and a Bachelor's degree in International Business Management. Apart from that, his life revolves around the ‘Four F’s’ - family, friends, football and food. Email: [email protected]

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