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Actress who engaged in real-life sex and ejaculation scene explains why her name was initially taken off credits

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Updated 13:37 31 May 2024 GMT+1Published 17:11 30 May 2024 GMT+1

Actress who engaged in real-life sex and ejaculation scene explains why her name was initially taken off credits

9 Songs actress Margo Stilley has reflected on the film 20 years after its original premiere

Brenna Cooper

Brenna Cooper

Margot Stilley has explained why her name was removed from the credits of a film infamous for its unsimulated sex scenes.

She starred in Michael Winterbottom's 2004 film 9 Songs alongside Kieran O'Brien.

The pair played Matt and Lisa, a pair of transatlantic lovers whose relationship is told through a series of sexual encounters following several different rock concerts.

Intending to be a small indie, arthouse film, 9 Songs would find itself at the centre of a cultural storm after its release due to the intimate scenes between Stilley and O'Brien featuring real, unsimulated sex.

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The film also garnered further controversy after an initial cast list from the film had Stilley only listed as character name Lisa - prompting news outlets at the time to run 'hotlines' looking for information on her identity.

Speaking to LADbible about the film for the first time since 2008, Stilley, now 41 and a new mother, has now revealed that she'd never intentionally tried to get her name taken off the credits.

“I said, ‘oh just put me on as Lisa’ at the Cannes screenings which were not public, then the press got it and The News of the World ran a hotline for anyone who had information on who I was,” Stilley recalled.

“I then realised I was causing a lot of ruckus,” the actress added, joking that her decision was a stroke of unintentional ‘marketing genius’.

9 Songs became notorious for its unsimulated sex. (Revolution Films)
9 Songs became notorious for its unsimulated sex. (Revolution Films)

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It's easy to know now – in our hyper-connected world – that a film such as 9 Songs would receive a strong reaction.

However, Stilley explained that back in 2004 she hadn’t expected it would get so much attention, adding that 9 Songs had originally been intended as ‘small independent arthouse film’.

Much to the surprise of the cast and crew, the opposite happened, with Winterbottom forced to add more screenings for the film as so many people wanted to watch it. And they were definitely not a fringe, arthouse crowd.

"We had a small market screening and people were queuing to try and get into it, they had to put on extra screenings, and we had more press coverage than all the films in competition put together,” the director told the BBC back in 2005.

Margo Stilley in 2022. (Getty Images/ Dave Benett)
Margo Stilley in 2022. (Getty Images/ Dave Benett)

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Alongside the firestorm of media attention, the flick also received an immense amount of backlash for its unsimulated sex scenes.

Critics debated whether the use or real sex and ejaculation meant it should be considered a porn film, former MP Ann Widdecombe complained about it in the House of Commons and it received a score of just 24 percent on review aggregator site Rotten Tomatoes.

Stilley – who only 21 at the time – confided that the reaction was ‘extremely overwhelming’ for her at the time.

Stilley and O'Brien with director Michael Winterbottom. (Carlo Allegri/Getty Images)
Stilley and O'Brien with director Michael Winterbottom. (Carlo Allegri/Getty Images)

“I just didn't think would be that interested. I was so wrong,” she recalled with a laugh. “I didn't understand that I would become the target of Britain's repressed sexuality and all the rage that comes with sexual repression [and] as the woman I was the figurehead for it.”

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The backlash and slut-shaming is something Stilley still has to endure to this day – thanks to the development of the modern internet.

She revealed she still suffers ‘greatly’ from her name being linked to porn sites – “It’s not Michael’s name and it’s not Kieran’s name on there. It’s my name.” – as well as film clips making their way onto explicit websites.

“I think it's one of my greatest heartbreaks. To find that out about the world,” she added.

Stilley's name was omitted at Cannes' screenings. (Revolution Films)
Stilley's name was omitted at Cannes' screenings. (Revolution Films)

Despite the overwhelming response, Stilley still stands by the film to this day, revealing that she ‘loves’ the film and cried at the ending while watching it back a ‘few years ago’.

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For those who haven't seen it, it ends with Lisa returning to the US after her time studying in London is over while Matt is later seen gazing out at the icy wilderness of Antarctica as he heads out to research the terrain.

She also 'doesn’t remember' being apprehensive about the unsimulated sex scenes (which clock in at around 35 minutes), explaining that she had developed the character with ‘amazing filmmaker’ Winterbottom before shooting began.

O'Brien and Stilley in 9 Songs. (Revolution Films)
O'Brien and Stilley in 9 Songs. (Revolution Films)

“It's a shame that it's been torn apart into these little pieces and bastardised online, to be honest,” she said.

O'Brien was similarly proud of the movie, telling The Guardian in 2005 that he was the 'opposite of ashamed' of the film's graphic scenes.

So, after 20 years of controversy, did Silley have anything she wished she could tell her younger self? Turns out she has one piece of advice.

“I would just say don't take it personally,” she said. “Enjoy yourself… and don’t take it personal.”

Featured Image Credit: J.Vespa/Getty Carlo Allegri/Getty

Topics: Cannes Film Festival, Film, Sex and Relationships, Originals

Brenna Cooper
Brenna Cooper

Brenna Cooper is a journalist at LADbible. She graduated from the University of Sheffield with a degree in History, followed by an NCTJ accredited masters in Journalism. She began her career as a freelance writer for Digital Spy, where she wrote about all things TV, film and showbiz. Her favourite topics to cover are music, travel and any bizarre pop culture.

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