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Expert reveals if it's cheating to subscribe to an OnlyFans account in a relationship

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Published 14:27 16 May 2024 GMT+1

Expert reveals if it's cheating to subscribe to an OnlyFans account in a relationship

OnlyFans has an average of 420 million monthly users

Anish Vij

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An expert has revealed if subscribing to an OnlyFans account while in a relationship is cheating.

With an average of 420 million monthly users and over two million content creators, it's no secret that the platform is becoming increasingly prominent in the adult film industry.

OnlyFans' net revenue for 2022 was a whopping $2.5 billion and the London-based company shows no signs of slowing down.

It remains a controversial topic. (Nikolas Kokovlis/NurPhoto via Getty Images)
It remains a controversial topic. (Nikolas Kokovlis/NurPhoto via Getty Images)

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Some of its top earners rake in hundreds of thousands a month and even non-celebrities can comfortably earn a good living alongside their day job.

However, the idea of OnlyFans being a form of cheating has been explored by Silva Neves, a relationship and psychosexual therapist.

Why people in relationships may use OnlyFans

OnlyFans allow its users, who pay a monthly fee, to engage with creators directly on the platform, via message requests and video links, which usually cost extra.

But after all, sexual fantasies and unconventional quirks are embraced by most OnlyFans creators, who have admitted to getting the odd 'over-the-top' request.

“Fantasy is crucial for our mental health,” Neves explained to Bustle.

“Engaging in fantasy-forward content opens possibilities for erotic expression.”

Like with porn, OnlyFans can be consumed as a form of escapism, but could it be a concern when you're in a relationship?

Are you hiding your OnlyFans from your partner? (Getty Stock Image)
Are you hiding your OnlyFans from your partner? (Getty Stock Image)

Is subscribing to OnlyFans while in a relationship a form of cheating?

Cheating will forever be a controversial topic due to the lack of a proper definition.

For some, cheating is sleeping with another person while in a relationship. Meanwhile, others believe that having friends who are of the opposite sex is a no-go.

Ultimately, Neves says that it depends on what 'counts' as cheating as there’s no objective standard.

“What constitutes cheating depends on the specific agreement of the relationship,” Neves noted.

“For some couples watching porn may be cheating, but not for others.”

The dating expert says it depends on what you class as 'cheating'. (Getty Stock Image)
The dating expert says it depends on what you class as 'cheating'. (Getty Stock Image)

How to talk to your partner about OnlyFans

Just asking the question can be tough enough, Neves says, as most people struggle to bring up the topic.

“Are you watching custom porn when you masturbate?” can be an uncomfortable question to ask, but it's all about being open.

If you don't like your partner watching porn or subscribing to an OnlyFans page, then it might be worth mentioning that to them.

It's all about being comfortable with what your partner is doing, and coming to an agreement on what works best for the both of you.

As always, communication is key.

Featured Image Credit: Getty Stock Image/Nikolas Kokovlis/NurPhoto via Getty Images

Topics: OnlyFans, Adult Industry, Sex and Relationships

Anish Vij
Anish Vij

Anish is a Journalist at LADbible Group and is a GG2 Young Journalist of the Year 2025. He has a Master's degree in Multimedia Journalism and a Bachelor's degree in International Business Management. Apart from that, his life revolves around the ‘Four F’s’ - family, friends, football and food. Email: [email protected]

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