
A former Russian spy has described one of the techniques she could use to make a man think she was 'the best', and it's called the 'anchor technique'.
Aliia Roza used to be a Russian spy who infiltrated drug gangs and human trafficking networks until her cover was blown and had to flee from her country.
Since then she's found a new line of business as a women's empowerment coach and fashion influencer, but she still remembers many of the techniques she learned as a spy in order to manipulate people.
Speaking to Raj Shamani, she described 'how to put an anchor on your target's body' that could make or break someone's self-esteem depending on how it was used.
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It was taught to her as a way 'to make our target to be dependent in [a] sexual way from you' where the target would 'not be able to be aroused with any other female partner so he would be only hooked on you'.

Roza described an example where immediately after sex, with the former spy noting that after ejaculation was 'the most vulnerable relaxed time where his brain consumes and accepts any information you say', someone might say something like 'you're the best' or 'this sex was the best' and touch a part of the target's body.
As for which part, she said it 'shouldn't be public' so not the hands, instead suggesting the neck, shoulders or ear and saying that repeating this a few times right after ejaculation was a 'very strong technique'.
She said that you could then use the anchor technique by touching the same spot and saying the same words, activating the same bits of the brain.
"Honey trap agents, they would say 'we we are the power couple' and use the same things. 'Only I can help you'," went her explanation of how once someone was anchored the message could be reinforced.
"'Only with me you can have such a pleasure. Only with me you can be strong. Only I know how to make you successful. I know I am the best in your life.'"

With an anchor spot set up and the messages imparted, Roza said that you could just touch the same spot and say the same words which 'activates the brain' to keep hammering home the message.
She said it was a very effective technique to get someone hooked on you and convinced that you had everything they wanted.
The 41-year-old previously told the New York Post that there was also a method in first making the connection.
According to Roza, you appeared in their life seven times before first contact so that 'their brain already trusts you'.
She said: "You might show up at their coffee shop, their gym, or just keep liking their posts. When you finally meet, their brain already trusts you."
After making contact you then 'pretend to be weak or alone' because 'every man wants to feel like the rescuer'.

