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Woman Who Is Planning 'World's Largest Orgy' Reveals Her Rules For Guests

Claire Reid

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Woman Who Is Planning 'World's Largest Orgy' Reveals Her Rules For Guests

A woman who is planning to organise the world's biggest orgy has spoken about the work that goes into pulling off such an event and revealed the three rules she has for guests.

Twenty-nine-year-old Pearl Derriere, a polyamorous events planner from Denver in the US, is hoping to get 1,000 attendees at her party, to double the 500-people event that took place in Japan and currently holds the record.

Pearl, who is part of the 'sex positive' movement, says she stopped counting the number of people she slept with when it hit 100 eight years ago. She is now open polyamourous and currently shares her life with live-in boyfriend Dan Patrick and a girlfriend called Tomi Tailey.

Her partners are happy for her to also have sex with other people at orgies, such as the one she is planning at the moment, the date and location of which remain a closely guarded secret within the sex positive community

She said: said: "For me, I could never imagine one person fulfilling my every physical and emotional need for the rest of my life, which is why being a poly swinger suits me.

Pearl is hoping to break a record with her 1000-person sex party. Credit: PA Real Life
Pearl is hoping to break a record with her 1000-person sex party. Credit: PA Real Life

"I may go to a sex party with Dan and sleep with someone else, sometimes even a friend I know, but it doesn't bother him, that's just how our relationship works. We don't need to feel insecure, because we know our value to each other.

"My boyfriend is human and understands me and my needs. As long as I'm safe, sane and everything is consensual there's no problem!

"We both get immense satisfaction knowing each other's sexual, physical and mental needs are being met."

Pearl and a friend set up an event's company, Menage Life, back in 2016 and now help to plan private sex parties after going along to a number of orgies over the years.

She first attended an orgy back in 2012 while working a burlesque dancer.

Pearl has more than one partner and also has one-off sex with others at sex parties. Credit: PA Real Life
Pearl has more than one partner and also has one-off sex with others at sex parties. Credit: PA Real Life

"The moment I walked in, I saw someone involved in an intimate act and was caught off guard a bit," Pearl explains. "But I soon realised it was just like any other party, with people chatting and dancing, too.

"People could have sex and be intimate, or just watch if they wanted to.

"I made plenty of friends that night and have been enthralled by it all ever since."

Now, Pearl arranges her own events, but she is super strict with anyone wanting to go and makes sure they abide by a number of rules and she is always careful with her own sexual health.

"I get tested for STIs - sexually transmitted infections - every six months and the results are always clear," she explained.

"To make sure that people are accounted for and not too drunk and messy, we only let people in to parties if they come with a friend or partner. That way, if someone passes out or makes other people uncomfortable, we can alert whoever they came with.

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"Being filmed is also a worry at orgies - so no one is allowed in with recording devices or mobile phones. We need a trusting environment for everyone to have fun."

Speaking about her upcoming record-breaking-attempt party, she added: "I'm not sure what will happen, but I just know I want to be part of something I consider historically monumental to the sex positive community.

"For the most part, our community is hidden, no one wants to be 'outed' to other people as someone who attends these events, so it can be very isolating.

"I hope our huge event can change that and we can lead a sex positive revolution!"

Featured Image Credit: PA Real Life

Topics: Interesting, Weird, US

Claire Reid
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