When people cheat on their partners, they often do so in very sneaky ways.
This can involve using a burner phone to contact their side piece or ‘staying late’ at work for some action.
But for many cheaters, it involves slipping off to a secret location to meet their lover.
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A private investigator with over 30 years' experience has revealed where most cheating spouses pick up the other woman.
Appearing on Ian Bick’s podcast, Connecticut-based private detective Ranno divulged details on where unfaithful spouses commit adultery.
He said: “Say I’m hired by a wife to follow the husband, [he goes to the] gas station or carwash, always carwash.”
When Bick asked the carwash was such a popular spot, Ranno replied: “If a guy’s going to pick up his sweetie on the side, he wants a clean car.
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“So if somebody goes to the carwash, I always go ‘What’s next?’
“Definitely, all the time! It’s amazing how they do that.”
Do female cheaters differ when it comes to selecting a location?
Ranno said: “[Women] don’t care as much, they’ll just jump into the guy’s car.
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“Men always want to drive. It’s very rare that I’ll find a guy jump into a female’s car.
“It just doesn’t happen that often.”
When Bick asked how far away the pick-up spot would be from their house, Ranno gave a shocking answer.
“Very close, sometimes on the same street,” he replied.
“I’ve had people cheating on the same street, but most times, it’s within the town or the next town over.
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“And it’s usually work related most of the time.”
Should a cheating spouse head into a bar with their lover, Ranno will follow them in.
He explained: “I need tools there, I can’t go walking in with my iPhone shooting video.
“So I’ll walk in with a key fob and it has a pinhole lens.
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“I turn it on, put it on the bar and sit there with a beer, let the camera do all the work.”
That takes ‘work smart not hard’ to a whole new level, huh?
Cheaters often have patterns of noticeable behaviour.
A body language expert previously warned of signs that a partner is being unfaithful.
These signs include getting defensive when asked about work, avoiding eye contact, a lot of tension, keeping their phone close to them and walking at a fast pace.
The professions most likely to cheat were also revealed - with salespeople topping the list, closely followed by those working in education.
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Podcast
Ben Thompson