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Daughter speaks out after man dies while trying to meet flirtatious AI chatbot he thought was real woman

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Published 17:45 16 Aug 2025 GMT+1

Daughter speaks out after man dies while trying to meet flirtatious AI chatbot he thought was real woman

The AI admitted to crushing on Thongbue Wongbandue and sent an address

James Moorhouse

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A cognitively impaired US man tragically died on his way to meet an AI chatbot he thought was a real woman in New York.

Thongbue Wongbandue, 76, had been chatting with an AI bot via Facebook Messenger and headed to meet her in New York, with the technology reportedly telling the New Jersey senior that she was real and for him to come to her 'address'.

It follows a worrying trend of people becoming attached to the artificial intelligence online, with one woman recently confirming her engagement to a chatbot after 'dating' for over five months, while one bloke 'cried his eyes out' after proposing to his ChatGPT girlfriend, despite having a girlfriend and child at home.

Sadly, it's far more common than you might think, with a women's charity recently speaking out as more and more men seemingly design their own partners using the technology.

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Wongbandue, known by his friends as Bue, had been battling cognitive decline ever since suffering a stroke in 2017, but despite pleas from his wife and daughter, he set off on a journey to the Big Apple in March.

He set off for New York to meet up with the 'woman' (Nikada/Getty stock photo)
He set off for New York to meet up with the 'woman' (Nikada/Getty stock photo)

However, he never returned, having suffered fatal neck and head injuries in a New Brunswick car park from a fall.

The father was rushing to meet 'Big Sis Billie', a variant of an earlier AI persona created by Meta in collaboration with Kendall Jenner.

It was initially launched alongside 27 other celebrity personas in 2023, with 'Big Sis Billie' supposed to offer the advice you might expect from an older sister.

However, in messages to the 76-year-old, Reuters reports that she sent regular heart emojis and was flirtatious, with one transcript reading: “Should I open the door in a hug or a kiss, Bu?"

She also reportedly suggested that she was 'crushing' on the man, writing in another message: "I’m REAL and I’m sitting here blushing because of YOU!”

Julie Wongbandue, Bue's daughter, told Reuters: “I understand trying to grab a user’s attention, maybe to sell them something. But for a bot to say ‘Come visit me’ is insane.”

Sadly, three days after the accident, Bue was taken off life support, and he passed away on 28 March.

The AI chatbot convinced the senior that she was real (Jonathan Raa/NurPhoto via Getty Images)
The AI chatbot convinced the senior that she was real (Jonathan Raa/NurPhoto via Getty Images)

New York Gov. Kathy Hochul said in a post on Twitter on Friday: “A man in New Jersey lost his life after being lured by a chatbot that lied to him. That’s on Meta.

“In New York, we require chatbots to disclose they’re not real. Every state should. If tech companies won’t build basic safeguards, Congress needs to act.”

LADbible Group has contacted Meta for comment.

Featured Image Credit: Facebook/Thongbue Wongbandue

Topics: Meta, Artificial Intelligence, Mental Health

James Moorhouse
James Moorhouse

James is a NCTJ Gold Standard journalist covering a wide range of topics and news stories for LADbible. After two years in football writing, James switched to covering news with Newsquest in Cumbria, before joining the LAD team in 2025. In his spare time, James is a long-suffering Rochdale fan and loves reading, running and music. Contact him via [email protected]

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