Bride feels 'lied to' after finding out her husband has a micropenis on their honeymoon
Perhaps for cultural or religious reasons, some couples will wait until their honeymoon to consummate their marriage.
While this may work for some, for one newlywed, this certainly wasn't the case.
The then-27-year-old bride opened up about how her then-32-year-old partner refused to have sex with her during their six month relationship.
He told her that he's 'old fashioned' and wanted to wait until after tying the knot.
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The pair went out for six months before getting engaged and then spent another six months prepping for their wedding.
"We got close to fooling around a couple times but it never went far," she recalled in a viral Reddit post.
"I tried, but he always stopped after it went 'too far'."
Well, she wasted no time after getting back from her honeymoon to recount the moment she discovered he had a micropenis.
"Am I the a**hole for reading into this and being upset that I waited until my wedding night to find out that he probably isn't as 'old fashioned' as he says he is?" she said.
"I'm not going to shame him and honestly I don't even know how I'll broach the topic (and I'm not seeking advice).
"I honestly just acted like nothing was out of the ordinary and went to town with him, but... I dunno.
"I kind of feel lied to. Like a halftruth... or something was intentionally withheld from me. This was unexpected, to say the least."
Things really kicked off as her Reddit post from 2019 went viral and unfortunately for the venting wife, her husband apparently saw it.
She wrote in an update that he wanted to end the marriage and even sue her for defamation of character.
He was worried that it was only a matter of time before his name was leaked.
However, she confronted him about why he didn't tell her about his private parts before they got hitched.
She explained in the update that her husband was worried she would call off the wedding if she found out and then their families might discover the reason behind the move.
Some people took to the comments section to say that the size of his penis isn't the issue, but the trust between them was.
"This is a serious trust issue," one person wrote.
"It's not the size that's at issue here, it's the fact that #1, he didn't trust her enough to tell her, and #2, now she cannot trust him not to be dishonest."
Someone else said: "He did deceive her, though. She was more than willing to test drive, yet he denied her the possibility because he knew she'd discover his little secret."
Topics: Reddit, Sex and Relationships, Weddings
Anish Vij