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Therapist says one question will ‘test your relationship’ but it is ‘making people cry’
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Published 11:44 12 Jul 2025 GMT+1

Therapist says one question will ‘test your relationship’ but it is ‘making people cry’

Professional counsellor Jeff Guenther has revealed what questions you should ask if you want to 'test your relationship'

Anish Vij

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A licensed therapist has shared 10 questions that will 'test your relationship' to the max, but one in particular is making people 'cry'.

Taking to his TikTok page, US-based counsellor Jeff Guenther (@therapyjeff) has revealed the '10 unhinged questions that you probably shouldn't ask your partner'.

"But what the hell. Go ahead," he told his 2.8 million followers.

Many of the questions involved weird one-off scenarios, such as 'what would you do if 'your partner had been hired to date you as part of a social experiment' and 'imagine a situation where someone offered you money to go no contact with your partner for one year'.

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However, it was the 'celebrity crush' test which proved to be a bit too much for some.

"Imagine a situation where someone offered you money to watch your partner make passionate love with their number one celebrity crush," Guenther began in a recent video.

Viewers were traumatised by the thought of asking such a question (Getty Stock Images)
Viewers were traumatised by the thought of asking such a question (Getty Stock Images)

"What would be the minimum amount that can make you pull up a chair and watch it go down?"

People were losing their minds in the comments, as one viewer said: "The celebrity crush question made me actually cry."

"I could be paid no amount of money for the trauma that would cause," another agreed.

Although some were actually considering it, as a third person added: "20 million is the answer, we both said the same number BUT with the caveat that we have to be able to talk about what’s happening first. No disappearing."

Others said it 'depends on the celebrity crush' as another revealed: "My girlfriend's #1 celebrity crush is Taylor Swift, so yes."

Seems like this isn't the first time this person has thought about it.

Guenther's 10 questions 'not to ask your partner'

Not everyone would make it through these 10 questions (Getty Stock Images)
Not everyone would make it through these 10 questions (Getty Stock Images)

1. If you learnt that your partner had been hired to date you as part of a social experiment where very hot people dated complete losers like you, would you be able to forgive them?

2. Imagine a situation where someone offered you money to go no contact with your partner for one year. What would be the minimum amount that can make you seriously consider it?

3. If it was discovered that you and your partner are actually long-lost half-siblings, would you stay together and would you tell anyone?

4. Suppose you discovered that your previous relationship ended because your current partner covertly orchestrated its demise, ensuring you were single so they could step into your life. Would you find this romantic or a red flag?

5. Imagine a situation where someone offered you money to watch your partner make passionate love with their number one celebrity crush. What would be the minimum amount that can make you pull up a chair and watch it go down?


6. Imagine you have the option to know every secret, big or small, that your partner has kept from you. Would you want to know?

7. If you could ask all of your partner's exes what they didn't like about them and what their major red flags are, would you want to know that information?

8. If a genie offered you three wishes but there was a 10% chance your partner would disappear from your life forever, would you accept those three wishes?

9. If you had the ability to get rid of one of your partner's flaws or imperfections, which one would it be and why?

10. You have a one-time-use time machine and you have to use it to alter something in your relationship. What are you going to alter?

Featured Image Credit: Getty Stock Images

Topics: Sex and Relationships, Dating trends

Anish Vij
Anish Vij

Anish is a Journalist at LADbible Group and is a GG2 Young Journalist of the Year 2025. He has a Master's degree in Multimedia Journalism and a Bachelor's degree in International Business Management. Apart from that, his life revolves around the ‘Four F’s’ - family, friends, football and food. Email: [email protected]

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