Couple who go on spicy cruises explain if going in 'playroom' alone is classed as cheating

If you love sailing the seas and flirting with the idea of swapping partners with other guests, then the ‘spicy’ cruise might be for you. However, there’s something you need to know if you’re wondering about what constitutes as ‘cheating’.

Okay, so maybe being non-monogamous sounds like anything really goes, particularly if you’re a swinger, but everyone has their rules.

If you’re trying to revamp your sex life with like-minded couples in the same boat - quite literally - you can take the voyage of a lifetime to make that happen.

However, they’re not full-blown having sex with other people on international waters because there are rules for passengers, but that doesn’t mean they can’t have fun.

One particular couple who has been documenting their journey on holiday are TikTokers Bella and Jase.

The couple share content on their @4ourplay.com account and have been showing people what it’s like diving into the spicy cruise world.

The pair vlogged their trip onboard the Celebrity Summit cruise ship, which was booked through Temptation Cruises.

They explain how they navigate their relationship on board, but also answer people’s questions.

One particular question they answered was whether Bella going into the ‘playroom’ alone would be considered cheating.

The pair posted their clip explaining their answer a few weeks back and it’s interesting to say the least.

When Bella asked him, Jase replied: “If you’re going to like, see what’s going on- no.”

He added: "But if you’re going in there, like, trying to play- yes.”

The playroom is a room where couples go in to swap partners and experiment with each other.

So, perhaps the pair need to be with each other during that time for it to be given the all-clear.

Even non-monogamous people have their rules when it comes to being with other people, which is probably why it works so well for them.

Jase then asked Bella if it would be cheating if he went into the ‘spicy hot tub’ to meet someone else’s partner?

Good question.

Bella first checked that he meant he was going alone, and when he confirmed, she agreed that it would be cheating.

“If you’re going there to meet someone alone to do spicy things, then yes,” she said.

The cruises the pair enjoy taking have a lot of strict rules when it comes to hook ups, and even though it encourages exploration, it doesn’t explicitly say it’s a sex party.

Temptation Cruises describes its service as 'the most exhilarating party vacation of your life' with plenty of fun to be had onboard.

It explained: "Join us at the areas where bikini tops are optional (the pool and sundecks), or how about a visit to our clothing-optional spot or to the playroom.

"In addition, enjoy thematic pool parties, daring activities, tempting workshops, incredible DJs, and outrageous theme nights. You can do as much or as little as you choose, the decision is up to you."

It’s not too crazy either on the prices with a one-week holiday starting from £154.41 per person, per night.

Just make sure you read the guidelines and you’re good to go.