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10 signs you’re in a toxic relationship as expert warns signals could be subtle

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Published 12:46 7 Mar 2024 GMT

10 signs you’re in a toxic relationship as expert warns signals could be subtle

If you're experiencing some of the 10 signs of a toxic relationship you might need some support.

Anish Vij

Anish Vij

Featured Image Credit: Getty Stock Images

Topics: Mental Health, Sex and Relationships

Anish Vij
Anish Vij

Anish is a Journalist at LADbible Group and is a GG2 Young Journalist of the Year 2025. He has a Master's degree in Multimedia Journalism and a Bachelor's degree in International Business Management. Apart from that, his life revolves around the ‘Four F’s’ - family, friends, football and food. Email: [email protected]

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A truly toxic relationship can be difficult to spot.

What qualifies as 'toxic' and is it really necessary to have other people question your relationship?

However, to go through the 10 common signs, therapist Jor-El Caraballo and author Carla Marie Manly, PhD, have attempted to break down the possible red flags you might be ignoring.

There are a few signs you might want to look out for...
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1) Lack of support

Wanting your partner to succeed suggests that you're in a 'healthy relationship', Caraballo told Healthline.

But you might want to start worrying if everything becomes a competition, who earns more, who does more work around the house etc.

If you lose the support of your loved one in everyday tasks, then this is one you need to look out for.

2) Resentment

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Holding on to grudges can lead to 'frustration or resentment', which can 'build up' over time.

Not being able to be open with your loved might be a dangerous idea in the long-term.

Transparency is very important.

3) Willingness to invest

Let's be real, every relationship has its problems, but if you're both not on the same page and one of you is less willing to improve things, then that's not a good signs, according to the experts, and anyone with a bit of common sense.

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“This may manifest by an interest in deepening conversations,” Manly added.

Every relationship has its problems, but are you on the same page as your partner?
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4) Constant stress

This is a pretty obvious one, as stress is quite simply a killer.

But if you, or your partner, don't help each other to feel less stressed, then mental and physical problems are likely to arise.

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5) Lack of self-care

You've stopped doing those hobbies you used to enjoy and have instead replaced them with work/family commitments.

Admittedly, the older you get, the more responsibilities you have.

But to neglect your hobbies, especially for the sake of your loved one, is not good.

It's ok to like separate things.

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6) Walking on eggshells

Being scared to be yourself around your partner because you're worried what they might think could lead to issues longer down the line.

Manly said: “If only one partner is invested in creating healthy patterns, there is — unfortunately — little likelihood that change will occur.”

7) Shifting blame

As an adult you have to be accountable for your mistakes, but equally not to bash your partner if they do make a lapse in judgement.

Instead of saying 'it’s your fault', perhaps say 'how can we fix this?' instead.

8) Hoping for change

Hope isn't really useful without action.

If you want to change something in your relationship then do something about it, instead of wishing for it.

Caraballo and Manly have given couples some helpful advice.
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9) Lost relationship

If having a partner stops you from seeing your friends and family, then make sure you're addressing that, unless you don't want to see your friends or family.

Especially if your partner isn't letting you meet up with certain people.

10) Ignoring needs

Often at the start of a relationship, you tend to go out of your way to make sure your boyfriend/girlfriend is happy with upcoming plans.

Little things like letting your partner always choose what movie to watch, or what restaurant to go to, can lead to issues.

If you're having issues in your relationship that you and your partner can't fix, then make sure you chat to your local GP.

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