Cardi B has made a splash online recently when she very explicitly shared one of her deepest sexual fantasies.
The rapper had been making an appearance on the Call Her Daddy podcast, which is known for its frank and open discussions of sex and sexuality.
And Cardi B, whose real name is Belcalis Almánzar, certainly was honest, going into very clear detail about one of her fantasies when asked by host Alex Cooper.
Such was the level of detail that it left some viewers blushing while others praised Cardi's openness and honesty and de-stigmatising sex.
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But an expert has explained why people are drawn to this fantasy, as well as some its potential pitfalls.
What is Cardi B's fantasy?
The short version is it's a threesome, but Cardi went into slightly more specific detail than that.
She explained that she would want to be in a threesome with a man and another woman.
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Not just that, but she and the other woman would be going down on the man at the same time.
How did Cardi B describe it?
Cardi left little to the imagination in her description of the fantasy, laying out exactly what she wanted and how.
Well, clear communication is important in sex!
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She said: "I would like, in a threesome, to have a really pretty face girl that I really like, and we both sucking d**k together."
Cardi didn't stop there either, further elaborating: "But not just like 'my turn! your turn! my turn! your turn!' like making out, clashing on it."
In one moment, she even emulated the actions of the activity, leaving viewers blushing!
What do the experts say?
While an expert hasn't gone into the, erm, 'ins and outs' of 'clashing' over a penis, plenty have explored the finer points of threesomes from the Eiffel Tower to the Cowgirl 69.
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Among them is sex historian Dr Kate Lister, who explained that while it is a fantasy for many people, threesomes can be a minefield.
Threesomes are a hugely popular category on The Site That Nobody Visits But Also Has Massive Amounts of Traffic.
In fact when that site, with the initials 'PH', published its data for the most popular categories, threesomes were right up there as the ninth most-searched term globally in 2019.
But porn is entertainment and not real life, a dizzying performance of sexual athleticism which is not representative of the awkward squelches and apologies of reality.
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While it's an enticing prospect for many couples, Dr Lister found that it doesn't take much at all for one person to become jealous or dissatisfied with the proceedings.
She wrote: "A successful threesome is far less about sex than it is about talking. It’s about being really honest around what is going on for you. It’s less about bodies and more about boundaries and being inclusive."
So there you have it - open communication in sex is key to doing it well.
And if there's one person who's shown that they're clearly good at openly communicating about sex, it's Cardi B.
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Kit Roberts