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Gwyneth Paltrow explains why she refused 'ecstasy' sex scene with Ethan Hawke

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Published 12:30 28 Dec 2025 GMT

Gwyneth Paltrow explains why she refused 'ecstasy' sex scene with Ethan Hawke

The actor revisited an early Great Expectations decision

Ben Williams

Ben Williams

Gwyneth Paltrow has never been short of reflection when it comes to her early Hollywood years, but a recent reunion has sparked fresh conversation about one of the more eyebrow-raising moments she chose to walk away from.

The Oscar-winning actor sat down with longtime collaborator Ethan Hawke to look back on their time working together in the late 1990s, as part of a video on YouTube for Vanity Fair: revisiting their first meeting and the film that helped define both of them for a new generation of moviegoers. Nearly three decades on, the pair were candid and visibly amused by memories that once felt high-stakes and career-defining.

This conversation, honing in on their work for the 1998 film adaptation of Great Expectations, touched on not only the ambition their younger selves had at the time, but also the realities of being young actors navigating an industry that didn’t always ask twice.

A defining role from early in Paltrow’s career has made way for deep reflection almost three decades later (YouTube/Vanity Fair/20th Century Fox)
A defining role from early in Paltrow’s career has made way for deep reflection almost three decades later (YouTube/Vanity Fair/20th Century Fox)

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Hawke recalled how filmmakers pitched ideas with a certain cinematic flourish, while Paltrow admitted that, back then, she was still figuring out where her own boundaries sat.

As Hawke put it, one particular idea was delivered with the drama he expected from Great Expectations director, Alfonso Cuaron, who also directed Children of Men.

Talking about a proposed sex scene between the pair’s leading characters (Finn Bell and Estella), Hawke remembered Cuaron saying to Paltrow: “The camera is going to go down your belly, and then it's going to go up your breasts, and then it's going to go in your face as you reach ecstasy. And then when you reach ecstasy, the light will explode like to the sun!”

As noted by PEOPLE, Hawke remembered herself thinking: “Oh, my God, my father’s going to have a heart attack.”

Then, Hawke recalled Paltrow responding with: “Alfonso, I'm never going to do that.”

Paltrow explained that her decision had little to do with the craft of acting and everything to do with how exposed she felt early in her career.

She said: “I was really self-conscious about my dad and grandfather seeing this kind of stuff. Like, it really bothered me. Now, I wouldn't care.”

Hawke backed her completely, praising how she handled the moment. He said she was firm without being difficult, noting that she understood how images could be interpreted and reused.

Paltrow reflected, adding: “Maybe I was too prudish in the moment.”

Hawke quickly replied: “I don't think you were.”

Looking back, the pair agreed the experience says more about youth and pressure than regret.

Paltrow added: “I was definitely worried about it,” while Hawke pointed out that those instincts were part of her learning how the entertainment business worked.

Featured Image Credit: Raymond Hall/GC Images

Topics: Celebrity, Film, Gwyneth Paltrow

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