Dominatrix reveals difference between men and women who pay $1,000 an hour to be humiliated

A woman with years of experience of inflicting - consensual - pain on her clients has lifted the lid on life in the sex industry.

Eva Oh is a jet-setting dominatrix who has seen it all and boasts a long list of men and women from every corner of the globe, who fork out $1,000 an hour for her services.

Bored with a career as a strategic consultant, Eva threw herself into the deep end of BDSM when a friend joked she should become a dominatrix.

For those of you not au fait with their work, a dominatrix is someone who plays the dominant role over their submissive partner in fetish role play.

Now, 15 years into the game, not much surprises Eva anymore, and she recently sat down with LADbible for our Honesty Box series to let us in on her world and explain exactly what makes her clients tick.

Now, you might have an idea of what goes on in a BDSM session, but Eva says the experience varies depending on who she's with, and whether they're a man or a woman.

Eva Oh has explained the differences between her men and women clients (LADbible Stories)

"I think the main difference that I see is that they can take a lot more, both psychologically and physically," Eva tells us. "It can be a much stronger session on what I am bringing to it a lot of the time.

"If men are in to pain, like, they are a masochist, that's, like, a very, like, dedicated thing.

"I think women have a wider capacity to sort of sink into what pain might be, I guess, because they experience it in their bodies often or in the world also."

Another major difference actually comes before either party even enters the dungeon, as women tend to be more aware of what they want to get out of one of her sessions beyond the physical acts themselves.

Eva explains: "The main difference that men are almost hardly ever doing, as opposed to women, is that a lot of the times, women are trying to reclaim a space for themselves. And to reclaim their pleasure.

"Whereas I don't think that's that's a very rare conversation when a man comes to you asking for something.

"They are always a little bit more aware of what hasn't been right and what they would like to maybe achieve in this space. Whereas that can be a conversation that you get from some men - they just haven't really had that connection with somebody, is usually their conversation - but most of the time, it's 'I want these things', kinks wise, and not a story necessarily behind why they might want to.

"It's almost like sometimes women feel they have to validate their pleasure, sure, but also their application."

Eva has let us in on her world that's often shrouded in mystery (LADbible Stories)

Do men and women tend to have different kinks?

Though Eva believes women can generally stand more pain in her sessions or typically come to her with a clearer sense of why they go, she insists that when it comes down to the fun itself, there isn't much of a discernible difference at all.

"In the end, it doesn't look that different," she said.

"It's like, just them being like rough housed a little bit, being restrained, being made to feel pleasure within this negotiated framework.

"But I have seen many more men than I have women, so it's hard for me to actually say, yes, men always like feet more or something."

And while she charges a fortune for her time, Eva admits she occasionally offers women lower prices if they have saved up specifically to see her.

"I'm quite expensive," she concludes. "Women, I will say you will make an effort to save. It's very touching, and actually I give them a different rate. If they're sexy, I'll give them an even lower rate."