The husband of a 'hotwife' has opened up on how he deals with any potential challenges or situations as a result of his alternative lifestyle.
In the 2020s, types of polyamorous relationships have become far less stigmatised as many have opened up about their experiences online.
Social media has provided a platform for many couples to share their unique relationship dynamics with others, as many have had their eyes open to the different types of relationships which exist.
One of these is known as 'hotwifing', which is for married couples where the husband enjoys his significant others having sexual relations with people who aren't him.
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A man who is a husband in a 'hotwifing' relationship, opened up about whether the lifestyle really works and revealed if he ever gets jealous or has any boundaries.
Vincent is married to Holly Hotwife, an adult actress and online personality, though he claims that he is 'probably the least jealous man alive'.
A hotwife herself, she spoke about her relationship on the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast, with the host also presenting questions to Vincent about their arrangement.
Holly said that being a hotwife helps to turn her on, while Vincent admitted: "I'm the one coming up with the crazy ideas and dares and sitting in my office twiddling my thumbs, coming up with great ideas and texting her and seeing what she'll latch onto."
Later in the podcast, Vincent explained the lifestyle in a nutshell: "Hotwifing, outside of its generic term is really an experience that both the husband and wife get to enjoy separately but end up together."
He said that it's 'the hottest thing ever' for his wife to take a random stranger home to 'bang him and make his year', which can be 'a blast' for both her and him.
"She comes home that night and tells me all about it or shows me pictures or shows me a video, and we get to experience re-experience it together and then as a result of that we are so infinitely sexually charged that we're able to roll into the best sex of the week," he claimed.
Vincent admitted though, that the scenario is so 'adrenaline-fuelled' that he is often nervous, energised, or excited while she's out seeing another man.
But he did highlight that this is only if you're comfortable with the lifestyle: "If you're not comfortable you're you know crying in a closet," noted that it's simplt cheating at that point.
He said that there likely wouldn't be a situation where things 'can go wrong' due to the emotional maturity that the couple has.
The host then asked: "What could she do to make you jealous?"
Surprisingly, the couple shared that they have some rules in place, as Holly said: "I don't sleep over at any yeah guy's house or (in his) bed - we have a no sleepover rule."
"We keep some things sacred and that's one of them I you know, only I get to hear her fart in her sleep, that's for me and not for you!" Vincent joked.
He further explained: "This is just sex that's it, this is a physical thing, not an emotional scenario."
"There's things I can do with other women that will just p*** Holly off and there's things she can do that get me that can, not p*** me off, but get me into the jealous zone and that's what we try to avoid," Vincent said.
Sounds like a lot of moving parts, but to each their own and all that.
Topics: Lifestyle, Sex and Relationships
Joshua Nair