ladbible homepage
ladbible homepage
  • iconNews
  • videos
  • entertainment
  • Home
  • News
    • UK
    • US
    • World
    • Ireland
    • Australia
    • Science
    • Crime
    • Weather
  • Entertainment
    • Celebrity
    • TV
    • Film
    • Music
    • Gaming
    • Netflix
    • Disney
  • Sport
  • Technology
  • Travel
  • Lifestyle
  • Money
  • Originals
    • FFS PRODUCTIONS
    • Say Maaate to a Mate
    • Daily Ladness
    • UOKM8?
    • FreeToBe
    • Citizen Reef
  • Advertise
  • Terms
  • Privacy & Cookies
  • License Our Content
  • About Us & Contact
  • Jobs
  • Latest
  • Archive
  • Topics A-Z
  • Authors
Facebook
Instagram
X
Threads
Snapchat
TikTok
YouTube
Submit Your Content Here
  • SPORTbible
  • Tyla
  • GAMINGbible
  • LADbible Group
  • UNILAD
  • FOODbible
  • UNILAD Tech
Relationship expert says there are three main signs that someone is going to cheat on you

Home> Lifestyle

Published 15:35 2 Feb 2025 GMT

Relationship expert says there are three main signs that someone is going to cheat on you

It could be bad news if all of these come out of nowhere

Brenna Cooper

Brenna Cooper

google discoverFollow us on Google Discover

Infidelity - it's existed since the dawn of civilisation, has been the inspiration for some of the biggest pop songs and even changed the course of history.

So it should go without saying that cheating on a partner is a pretty big deal.

It also shouldn't come as a surprise that there's a wealth of resources generated by concerned spouses on the topic, including the careers which cheaters are most likely to choose, body language analysis and even private investigators weighing in on it.

So what are the signs you should be on the lookout for?

Advert

Cheating is a major fear for many (Getty Stock Image)
Cheating is a major fear for many (Getty Stock Image)

One person to weigh in on the topic is relationship therapist Kimberly Moffit - who creates content on TikTok under the handle of @ask_kimberly - who revealed the three most obvious signs of infidelity she's noticed from working with clients.

"I have seen hundreds of clients who have gotten cheated on so I know exactly what to look for," she said at the beginning of the clip.

Improving physical appearance

Referring to this one as a partner becoming a 'peacock' Kimberly explains that a person looking to stray may will out of the blue a renewed interest in their physical appearance.

"So all of a sudden, they start going to the gym, or wearing cologne, or buying new underwear for themselves," she explained.

"The reason why cheaters do this is because essentially, they're back on the market."

She continued: "So that's why physical appearance is literally one of the first things that people notice when their partner's cheating.

"It's like, they didn't care at all, they weren't putting any effort in and now all of a sudden, they're super concerned with how they look."

Hiding phones can be another red flag (Getty Stock Image)
Hiding phones can be another red flag (Getty Stock Image)

Phone guarding

Even people with nothing to hide will shudder at the thought of someone being able to easily access their phone, but apparently it's also one of the 'prominent' signs that a partner may be cheating.

"When someone is cheating their phone is literally their lifeline," Kimberley said.

"If they're cheating on you, there's almost a 100 percent chance they are texting and exchanging DMs with this person and the phone houses all of that evidence.

"And they know like the minute you get your hands on that phone or see something on their phone, it's over."

Time

While less obvious of the three, having time to cheat without being caught is important.

Kimberley goes on to claim that 'travelling for work' is one of the biggest ways she sees a cheater hide their extramarital affairs.

"Travelling for work is the biggest way that cheaters accomplish this time and space, whether they're actually travelling for work or pretending to travel for work," she said.

"And when they're travelling and you ask them how their day was they're gonna give you some big, long lengthy explanation about how their day was and what they did.

"They do this to placate you. They want to overload you with information so that you'll stop asking questions."

Featured Image Credit: Getty Stock Images

Topics: Sex and Relationships, Dating trends, Lifestyle

Brenna Cooper
Brenna Cooper

Brenna Cooper is a journalist at LADbible. She graduated from the University of Sheffield with a degree in History, followed by an NCTJ accredited masters in Journalism. She began her career as a freelance writer for Digital Spy, where she wrote about all things TV, film and showbiz. Her favourite topics to cover are music, travel and any bizarre pop culture.

X

@_brencoco

Recommended reads

Impact smoking vs vaping has on your body is shown in worrying simulation(Youtube/XRayBuddy)Ray J claims he’s slept with 12,500 women but can only sleep with 1,000 moreJulia Beverly/Getty ImagesMan died eight months after getting terminal cancer diagnosis despite ‘having no signs’PASex expert explains truth behind 'Ozempic penis' as she shares reality of weight loss drugs in the bedroomYoutube/Diary of a CEO

Advert

Choose your content:

10 hours ago
18 hours ago
22 hours ago
a day ago
  • (Youtube/XRayBuddy)
    10 hours ago

    Impact smoking vs vaping has on your body is shown in worrying simulation

    Ever wondered what goes on inside your body whenever you smoke or vape?

    Lifestyle
  • TikTok/@sciencevital
    18 hours ago

    Simulation shows what happens to body if you consume drink labelled by heart surgeon as 'liquid death'

    The popular everyday drinks can have quite an instant impact on your body

    Lifestyle
  • Instagram/@saurorasoull
    22 hours ago

    Woman paid £350 by mums to sleep with their sons explains why she does it

    Saurora Grace explained what happens during her sessions as a sex surrogate

    Lifestyle
  • Getty Stock Image
    a day ago

    'Budget version of the Alps' is named cheapest 2026 summer holiday destination

    It's still perfect for those who love the great outdoors and boasts stunning scenery - but it's a fraction of the cost

    Lifestyle
  • Alcoholic says there are three signs that suggest you might be one too
  • Relationship coach shares six signs your partner will cheat on you before it happens
  • Expert says there are six signs your partner is about to leave you
  • Intimacy expert reveals tell-tale signs your partner is thinking about someone else in bed