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Secret rules on board adult's 'spicy cruise' as hidden meaning behind wearing black ring revealed

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Published 15:46 1 Jul 2025 GMT+1

Secret rules on board adult's 'spicy cruise' as hidden meaning behind wearing black ring revealed

Spicy cruises have loads of rules out at sea

Britt Jones

Britt Jones

Featured Image Credit: Andrei Nasonov/Getty

Topics: Lifestyle, Sex and Relationships, Travel, Cruise Ship

Britt Jones
Britt Jones

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An ex-cruise ship worker dished on the meaning behind wearing a black ring to a spicy cruise, and now all of the rules have been revealed.

If you wanted to sail out to sea with like-minded people, then you’re going to live designated 'spicy cruises'.

Created with people who like to get down and dirty in mind, they’ve risen in popularity in the past couple of years.

It is where couples who regularly engage in sexy activities go to have fun with singletons or other couples, and staff and couples alike have taken to social media to dish on the rules onboard.

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From symbolic door decorations to open 'playrooms', they’re also busting myths about the lifestyle and what it really means to take part in the spicy cruises.

So, if you’re on board and you see a whole load of pineapple images, just know that you’ve stumbled upon a secret code that only those who know will understand.

Recently, one thing that people were confused about was the etiquette when it comes to wearing jewellery and what it means on a cruise, as well as what the general rules are.

Here are your answers.

The black ring could land you in trouble if you guess its intensions incorrectly (ArtMarie / Getty)
The black ring could land you in trouble if you guess its intensions incorrectly (ArtMarie / Getty)

What does the Black Ring mean?

Lucy Southerton, a former cruise ship worker of 10 years, who makes content about her work on YouTube, revealed what it means when you see a person wearing a black ring on their right hand.

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"One other that I've heard is there's a black ring on your right hand," she said.

From forums to podcasts, apparently this means that the person is into the act of swinging (partaking in sexual encounters with other couples).

"But that's a little bit more inconspicuous because can you imagine if you went up to someone and you're like, 'Hey, I can see that black ring on your right hand' and they are like, 'Yeah, it's just a black ring'." she said.

However, a black ring worn on the middle finger is associated with asexuality, via Kent State.

So, just to be safe, don’t assume outright if you notice the ring.

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Spicy cruises come with a lot of rules (Michael Dunning / Getty)
Spicy cruises come with a lot of rules (Michael Dunning / Getty)

What are the rules in a spicy cruise?

Rule 1: Dress appropriately

The first rule for the company Temptation, is that pools and the beach are parts of the trip where bikini tops are optional, and you can go nude if you wish.

But it adds: "For the comfort of all guests, we ask that you use the appropriate attire in all other public areas, including dining facilities."

Rule 2: Photography

Temptation explains that 'some guests may want to keep their identities private'.

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"Due to the unique concept of our resort, we ask that when taking photos and / or video, you only do selfies and close-ups for personal use, no wide angles," the holiday provider says.

Rule 3: Respect is key

Guests may be told to keep the noise down when in hotel corridors after midnight. Temptation joked: "We don’t want to have to give anyone a time-out!"

Drugs are a big 'no', and alcohol has a limit (D-Keine / Getty)
Drugs are a big 'no', and alcohol has a limit (D-Keine / Getty)

Rule 4: Alcohol and drugs

You can buy drinks packages for before arrival, and booze is pretty much expected, but don’t drink too much or you’ll be cut off.

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However, illegal drugs will not be tolerated.

"We have created a relaxed ambiance aboard our Temptation Caribbean Cruise; however, drug use will not be tolerated," Temptation said.

"No illegal drugs or other illegal substances are allowed on board, at any time. Violation of drug laws may include, but is not limited to, removal from the ship and involvement of the appropriate authorities."

Rule 5: Staff and guest relationships

Staff cannot have any 'intimate' relationship with a guest or even have a drink with them, otherwise they’ll be dismissed from service.

"In order for all guests to fully enjoy their Temptation experience, we ask you to respect the playground rules," Temptation Cruises said.

Keep your booze minimal (Olga Pankova / Getty)
Keep your booze minimal (Olga Pankova / Getty)
Rule 6: Keep it private

Don’t get intimate in public, as that’s a big no.

Obviously, some people might like to be watched, or even watch others, but it’s common decency to keep your bits free from another person’s bits when in front of guests.

Rule 7: Red room

The red room, or play room, is an area of the ship that sees couples mix with other couples in a secure, intimate area and it sees photography banned.

It’s a ‘couples-only’ area, so don’t go posting anything.

Rule 8: Clothing

Keep it private (thianchai sitthikongsak / Getty)
Keep it private (thianchai sitthikongsak / Getty)

There’s actually rules about this, and I sh*t you not.

Even though bikinis are optional in the pools, you need to keep your kit on when you’re not in the locations where people are getting frisky.

"The dress code on board is 'cruise casual'," the cruise company says. "At dinner, you can expect a 'smart casual' dress code (dress, slacks, and blouses). Baseball caps, swimsuits, tank tops, T-shirts and shorts are never allowed in the restaurants in the evenings. Short pants are allowed only in the buffet."

Rule 9: Photography and film

Absolutely do not film or picture nudity.

"Due to the unique concept of our cruise, we ask that you refrain from taking photos/video in certain areas, as well as stipulated theme nights and all workshops," Temptation said.

Designated spaces only (Michael Sugrue / Getty)
Designated spaces only (Michael Sugrue / Getty)

"Be sure and capture your favourite Temptation Caribbean Cruise moments throughout all other areas around this spectacular ship."

Rule 10: Smoking

There is a general non-smoking policy on board, but there are designated smoking areas for those who are gagging for a puff.

Temptation said: "The ship is considered non-smoking; however, the cruise line has provided designated areas of the ship as smoking areas.

"These designated areas can be found outside, on deck 12 and forward."

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