Gisèle Pelicot issues update on relationship with daughter who stopped speaking to her
Warning: This article contains discussion of sexual assault and rape which some readers may find distressing.
Ahead of the publication of her memoir A Hymn To Life, Gisèle Pelicot has an extensive interview with BBC Newsnight airing tonight (15 February).
A UK exclusive, the French woman spoke to Victoria Derbyshire about the infamous 2024 trial of her ex-husband and 50 other men.
Dominique Pelicot is now serving a 20-year term in jail for drugging, raping and inviting the others to rape Gisèle.
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The 73-year-old inspiringly waived her right to anonymity during the trial and has ‘never regretted’ the decision to do so. Her doing this meant the men on trial couldn’t benefit from anonymity and the case drew global attention.
Gisèle’s daughter Caroline was at her side during this, but she has since said she stopped speaking to her mum, feeling like a ‘forgotten victim’.
Photos of the daughter asleep in her underwear were found on Dominique’s laptop as Gisèle says: “The incestuous look he cast on his daughter, I found utterly unbearable."
Caroline is convinced the man drugged and raped her too but he has not been prosecuted for this due to a lack of additional evidence.
In her book I’ll Never Call Him Dad Again, she claims that from the beginning, her mum couldn’t believe he would have preyed on his own child and apparently said: “Your father is incapable of such a thing."
Caroline told The Telegraph that the trial tested her relationship with Gisèle and they were no longer on speaking terms.
“My mother let go of my hand in that courtroom,” she claimed. “She abandoned me.”
She added that she can ‘never forgive’ her mother for not helping with her claims and that while she respects Gisèle has started a ‘new life’: “What I don’t respect is that she didn’t fulfil her contract with me. You stay a mother until you die, whatever the trials and tribulations – but she didn’t.”
Speaking to Newsnight, Gisèle said that the pair are now repairing their relationship.
“Each of us needed time to find our own path,” she said. “Today, we're trying to bring each other peace, and I hope we're on the right road to healing."
She explained that it took her daughter time as she’s ‘filled with hatred and anger’ but these are feelings the mum apparently doesn’t possess.
"I have neither hatred, nor anger,” Gisèle added. “I felt betrayed and outraged by Mr Pelicot, but that's just how I am."
Gisèle Pelicot: The Newsnight Interview is now available to watch on BBC iPlayer and airs on BBC Two at 10pm tonight.
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Topics: BBC, True Crime, World News
Jess Battison