Ladbible X Whatsapp
  • iconNews
  • videos
  • entertainment
  • Home
  • News
    • UK News
    • US News
    • Australia
    • Ireland
    • World News
    • Weird News
    • Viral News
    • Sport
    • Technology
    • Science
    • True Crime
    • Travel
  • Entertainment
    • Celebrity
    • TV & Film
    • Netflix
    • Music
    • Gaming
    • TikTok
  • LAD Originals
    • Say Maaate to a Mate
    • Daily Ladness
    • Lad Files
    • UOKM8?
    • FreeToBe
    • Extinct
    • Citizen Reef
  • Advertise
  • Terms
  • Privacy & Cookies
  • LADbible Group
  • UNILAD
  • SPORTbible
  • GAMINGbible
  • Tyla
  • UNILAD Tech
  • FOODbible
  • License Our Content
  • About Us & Contact
  • Jobs
  • Latest
  • Topics A-Z
  • Authors
Facebook
Instagram
X
Threads
Snapchat
TikTok
YouTube

LAD Entertainment

YouTube

LAD Stories

Submit Your Content
Hypnotherapist and pleasure coach explains how to spot if your partner is lying to you

Home> Entertainment> YouTube

Updated 10:03 19 Jul 2024 GMT+1Published 10:00 19 Jul 2024 GMT+1

Hypnotherapist and pleasure coach explains how to spot if your partner is lying to you

KateShelor says there are a tonne of hints that could mean you're being lied to

Tom Earnshaw

Tom Earnshaw

A hypnotherapist and pleasure coach has revealed some of the major things to look out for when it comes to lying in a relationship.

Whether we like it or not, lying can be a common thing in many romantic set ups and can often lead to major fall outs and sometimes, calling it quits.

From the more extreme forms such as cheating to the lesser eating of the last Rolo, there's a pretty big spectrum.

Advert

You might get away with the latter but you're playing with fire if you do the other, and the same goes for plenty in-between.

Kate Shelor, a hypnotherapist from Las Vegas, has given her top tips on what you should be looking out for when it comes to lying in your relationship.

From giving advice on having enough sex in your relationship to fixing a porn addiction, Kate spends her days giving professional advice to those who seek it on some of the more intimate issues in life.

Advert

The American, who also does OnlyFans in her spare time, has even held 'hypnotic sex sessions' on spicy cruise ship - and yes they are exactly as they sound.

On lying, some of Kate's tips on spotting it seem obvious while others are a little more nuanced, so it might be worth a deep dive if you are in a situation where you suspect something is afoot.

Kate is an expert in her field (Instagram / @kateshelor)
Kate is an expert in her field (Instagram / @kateshelor)

Body language, fiddling, blinking

"Pay attention to their body language, when people are lying they might avoid eye contact or look away frequently," Kate explains in a YouTube video on the issue.

Advert

"Touching or covering their mouth, nose or face. It can be a subconscious action when you are avoiding telling the truth. "Fiddling with objects, tapping a foot, shaking a leg, crossing arms or legs in a defensive posture. Leaning away from you is a way of trying to create physical distance."

Other small things to pick up on are 'subconsciously blinking rapidly' and 'inconsistencies in their story'.

Kate is a pleasure coach & hypnotherapist (Instagram/KateShelor)
Kate is a pleasure coach & hypnotherapist (Instagram/KateShelor)

Rehearsed answers and the opposite

"If someone is lying their story might of course change over time because they'll struggle to remember the details of their

Advert

deception, including contradictory information that doesn't make sense or match up with other facts," Kate explained.

Being 'overly rehearsed' is another red flag as it's just pretty weird when someone's story has no room to go off on tangents or flow naturally. You're not under oath, remember, so it's weird if someone is acting like they are.

On the flip side, having a lack of specific details and being 'super vague' because they 'don't want to give away too much' about what's been going on can look suspicious.

Liars also could see the tone of their voice change significantly, with the pitch going up when someone is telling porkies. Kate says: "That is a good way to tell that someone is very uncomfortable, also sounding super flat or monotone as if they're trying to suppress their emotions. That's a psychological sign that's a sign that something is going on that they're trying to suppress."

Asking open-ended questions

One way Kate says you could try and catch them out is by asking open-ended questions as they're much harder to answer than a simply yes or no.

Advert

She says: "Open-ended ones require a more detailed answer and this can help you get a better sense of whether or not someone is telling the truth.

"So instead of 'did you steal the money' and 'no' - pretty simple, you don't get a lot out of that - but 'do you know what were you doing at the time the money was stolen' is a more open-ended question of course that sounds like a police interrogation but I think you understand the point."

Kate says one major sign you're in a toxic relationship comes down to changing the subject.

She says: "You change the subject, you make it about the other person. This happens a lot in toxic relationships so watch out for that. Same with becoming hostile and and angry when questioned is a sign that somebody is not comfortable with answering that question."

And on the flip side, some will use humour, sarcasm and jokes to bat off questions; something Kate refers to 'toxic anger'.

Featured Image Credit: Instagram/YouTube/KateShelor

Topics: Sex Education, Sex and Relationships, US News, YouTube, Education

Tom Earnshaw
Tom Earnshaw

Tom joined LADbible Group in 2024, currently working as SEO Lead across all brands including LADbible, UNILAD, SPORTbible, Tyla, UNILAD Tech, and GAMINGbible. He moved to the company from Reach plc where he enjoyed spells as a content editor and senior reporter for one of the country's most-read local news brands, LancsLive. When he's not in work, Tom spends his adult life as a suffering Manchester United supporter after a childhood filled with trebles and Premier League titles. You can't have it all forever, I suppose.

X

@TREarnshaw

Advert

Advert

Advert

Choose your content:

10 hours ago
12 hours ago
  • 10 hours ago

    Kesha said infamous red carpet incident with Jerry Seinfeld was the ‘saddest moment of her life’

    Jerry Seinfeld said 'no thanks' to Kesha during a red carpet event

    Entertainment
  • 10 hours ago

    Movie fans say they still think about ‘traumatising’ but ‘amazing’ film 14 years after watching

    The film stars Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Brady Corbet and Michelle Trachtenberg

    Entertainment
  • 10 hours ago

    Ex-Superman Dean Cain hits out on ‘woke’ new version of the film after James Gunn called superhero an ‘immigrant’

    Cain also took issue with James Gunn changing Superman's motto

    Entertainment
  • 12 hours ago

    Follow up to The Office is coming to TV incredibly soon

    Expect to see a fan-favourite character pop-up in the follow-up series

    Entertainment
  • Relationship expert reveals what you should never say to a potential partner if you want them to like you
  • Relationship expert reveals how to tell if your partner is 'micro-cheating'
  • The signs your partner is cheating on you that only an expert will be able to spot
  • Psychiatrist reveals the one phrase that could save your relationship if you keep arguing with your partner