Woman who manages legal brothel explains main reasons she thinks married men visit

A woman who manages a legal brothel has explained the reasons married men come to her establishment.

It ought to be rather obvious what someone going to a brothel is heading there for, but the 'why' behind the 'what' is the thing being explained here.

Catherine De Noire manages one of the largest brothels in Europe and speaking to LADbible she said that, in a day, they might welcome 'between 500 and 1,000 people' - with Valentine's Day being one of the busiest days of the year.

Apparently the place looks pretty normal and has its own IT and HR departments, while she said they adopt an 'everyone has a chance' approach to hiring staff.

As for their clientele, Catherine said that just as there was no such thing as a typical sex worker there was also no such thing as a typical client and there were all sorts of people who would frequent their establishment.

Among them were married men, as Catherine said that they were coming in saying that their sex life with their spouse 'doesn't work', but they don't want to 'break the relationship' by getting with someone who might be expecting a longer term commitment.

It will likely come as no surprise to you, dear reader, to learn that some people who get married are not always entirely faithful to their partners.

As it turns out, married men are 'among the most prevalent groups' that visit the brothel she manages and in a post on Instagram she explained the reasons why they might end up going to a brothel.

She wrote: "The absence of physical intimacy, it may be missing in their relationship (due to alienation, lack of time or medical reasons) so they choose to pay a professional for this experience instead of finding a mistress.

"Lack of emotional intimacy - Many men go just to talk and be heard.

"Boredom - Even when everything seems fine in their relationship, some men seek novelty and excitement.

"Extraordinary fantasies - They may feel their partners would judge them, or they are too shy to share their fantasies, fearing it might disrupt the dynamics of their partnership.

"However, it's important to note that this isn't about assigning blame to either partner or suggesting it's the man's fault. Sometimes life unfolds in ways that lead to these choices."

Elsewhere in her recent conversation with LADbible, Catherine remembered that one of her clients once brought in their own polar bear costume for amorous use.

Apparently, one of the 'most common' requests guys come in with is to be the one receiving anal sex. However, this has caused some communication issues in the past as she said there was one time where a customer ran out of the room and it became apparent he wanted to be the one giving and not receiving. All the while some other clients who go to the brothel just go in to talk and say they don't even want sex.