Swingers who divorced after 11 years shared brutal reality of their lifestyle
A swinger couple who called it quits after 11 years have opened up about the harsh reality of their lifestyle.
You might know Jess and Mike Miller due to their appearance on Channel 4 TV show Open House: The Great Sex Experiment in 2022.
Or, you may know them from their NSFW content online on OnlyFans.
The former couple, who were together for over a decade, married, and had kids, have been open about their lifestyle, which included consensual non-monogamy content and threesomes.
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The adult content creators, though happy with their lives, said some aspect led them to divorce after 11 years together.
While they earned around £50,000 per month, something became too much for Jess to bare.
She told Metro.co.uk: “It never happens in the moment. After our first threesome, I had to ask Mike: ‘Was her vagina tighter than mine?’
“That’s all I wanted to know, because I had kids and she hadn’t. That was all that was going through my head. Are two vaginas the same? Does mine feel different to hers?”
Meanwhile, Mike said it was a little tricky to cope with two women at once.
He explained: “You’re having sex with your wife and another woman, it’s every straight man’s dream.
“Men can fantasise about having multiple partners at once, but they don’t realise you’ve got two emotional women that you have to balance out.
“You’ve got two women to please and communicate with, and it can be a juggling act.”
The threesome wasn’t the only crack, as Jess revealed she began to feel left out when Mike went off to work on his solo content.
Speaking in a TikTok video about why they divorced, Jess said: "Some people ask if the job was the ruiner of our relationship.
"I wouldn’t say it was the ultimate ruiner of the relationship, but I think there were elements of it that were a problem when it came to the dynamic of us.
"When it comes to our job, the woman is automatically like the main attraction of it," the mum said, before explaining that she feels this ended up being 'something that ate [Mike] up in the end."
She said Mike’s insecurities led him to put himself on a pedestal with his own content, but she 'wanted him to have success on his own'.
Jess said it was like 'a bit of a kick in the teeth' when Mike launched his 'solo career' earlier this year.
Jess revealed on a social media post that she just wanted to feel ‘special' when he started to do content without her.
"If you've gone and done a solo thing with someone - take me out for dinner, make me feel special, make me feel like I'm the one for you. And I didn't get that. I didn't ever get that and that's what I was asking for," she claimed.
She said she 'physically couldn't do it anymore' and felt like she was sacrificing herself.
Topics: Adult Industry, OnlyFans, Sex and Relationships, Channel 4
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