A bizarre new sex trend which is becoming more popular than ever is helping save relationships according to some couples.
Unfortunately, or fortunately depending on your standpoint, we're living in an age where people are becoming more and more open about what they get up to in the bedroom in public.
You only need to tune into Channel 4 after the watershed these days to either see some adults losing their virginity in front of millions on Virgin Island, or even trying swinging in Open House: The Great Sex Experiment.
While some blokes still feel nauseous at the idea of their partner sleeping with someone else, others seem to actively enjoy it, with cuckolding in particular growing in prominence among young men, with 10 per cent of Brits reportedly keen to try it.
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What is 'hotwifing?'
And now, some couples are stepping things up a notch, with men taking pleasure from watching their wives bedding two other blokes at once.
Speaking to the Daily Mail, one husband named Logan explained why he's gotten into 'hotwifing', saying: "It’s kind of like letting your friend test drive your car.
“He gets to see how well it rides. He’s got to give it back, but it creates a sense of pride. You get a little taste of what my life is like.”
Well Logan, I'd argue that it's actually not all that similar at all given your car is your property and your wife is not, but if you both want to notch things up a gear then that's up to you.
In fact, multiple couples are even turning to an adult site so they can get porn stars to sleep with their partners, because there's nothing like calling in a professional when you need help with the job.
What have others said about 'hotwifing?'
Another man named Alex was introduced to the idea by his wife Rebecca, who had the fantasy of sleeping with two men at the same time.
Rebecca said: “There’s really nothing like being able to share that experience with someone you love and knowing that it doesn’t diminish what we have. Sex and love are two completely different things.
“It actually made it a lot stronger. And it’s weird to say, but I actually love him so much more because of it.”
One man named Richard took things even further, suggesting that he wants to see his wife 'defiled', while she wears her wedding dress. I'll let you make your own mind up on that one.
He suggested that 'hotwifing' is 'a building block of love and trust, and it keeps getting stronger and stronger and stronger.'
“So we’re gonna strengthen our relationship, and I’m gonna get some entertainment and adrenaline from the defilement," he added.
Shannon Lofland, a former Colorado sheriff’s deputy, also plans on making a comeback to the adult industry by sleeping with another porn star in front of her husband.
She said: "We hope we were able to provide insight into the hotwife lifestyle and show that a couple can remain deeply in love and stay strong together, even when there are experiences with other partners.
“I could feel my husband’s unconditional love and support. This was a once-in-a-lifetime experience for both of us, and it made our bond even stronger.”
If this article has really piqued your interest, then I have good news, there's an entire festival dedicated to swinging coming to the UK very soon.
Topics: Channel 4, Sex and Relationships, UK News, Dating trends, Community, LGBTQ
James Moorhouse