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Woman who is a 34-year-old virgin explains the main reasons why she hasn't had sexual intercourse

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Updated 13:31 8 Dec 2024 GMTPublished 12:51 8 Dec 2024 GMT

Woman who is a 34-year-old virgin explains the main reasons why she hasn't had sexual intercourse

The American influencer has highlighted why she's remained a virgin all her life

Joshua Nair

Joshua Nair

A woman has explained why she is still a virgin at 34 in a video to her followers.

The American influencer took to Instagram to candidly speak about the subject, highlighting the main reasons behind her decision, which she says is fully her decision.

Lauren Harkins, known as itslaurenciaga on social media, is a crisis police liaison that claims to have had 'no boyfriend since birth' in her account's bio, for one key reason.

She has explained why she's chosen to remain a virgin (Instagram/itslaurenciaga)
She has explained why she's chosen to remain a virgin (Instagram/itslaurenciaga)

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Having previously spoken about how her lifestyle affects her decision, the 34-year-old began to say in the now viral video: "Some of the biggest myths about being a virgin in my 30s - these are all the things that people think when they find out I'm a virgin at 34, but aren't true."

Harkins listed: "They think I'm gay, they think I'm doing it for Jesus, they think hormones are not 'hormoning', they think I have a traumatic background, they think I need therapy,

"They think I'm super traditional, they think I have daddy issues, they think nobody wants me, they think I'm developmentally challenged, they think I'm socially awkward, they think I'm sex averse, they think I'm prude," she explained.



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Saying that 'the list goes on', she said that in her experience, people think that they're 'psychologists', but she insists that someone can be 'normal' despite not doing 'something' sexual.

Harkins says that there's nothing wrong with her for that, or anyone else choosing to abstain from sex.

"It just means you're not ready," she insisted.

The influencer said that she's just waiting for the right person, and that she 'doesn't want to settle' just yet, adding that she's 'all or nothing'.

The influencer has no shame in remaining a virgin (Instagram/itslaurenciaga)
The influencer has no shame in remaining a virgin (Instagram/itslaurenciaga)

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Harkins went on to explain that it's important to 'break those barriers' of what people perceive as normal when it comes to relationships.

"It's important to see someone who isn't aligning with their commonly held beliefs, and I love being able to be that person for people," she stated, before saluting and joking, 'it's an honour'.

People took to the comments to share messages of support too, as one said: "Laurreennnn!!! Ain’t nothing wrong with you because of your choices and I’m so happy you know that!"

Another added: "Just turned 36. Not 'waiting' just haven't yet and I'm 100% ok with that. Lol."

Answering a comment asking about how much she'd done, Harkins said she'd only kissed a few guys in high school and college for 'funsies'.

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A third simply commented: "Sex is too transactional in the modern age."

Featured Image Credit: Instagram/ItsLaurenciaga

Topics: Sex and Relationships, Social Media, Instagram, Community

Joshua Nair
Joshua Nair

Joshua Nair is a journalist at LADbible. Born in Malaysia and raised in Dubai, he has always been interested in writing about a range of subjects, from sports to trending pop culture news. After graduating from Oxford Brookes University with a BA in Media, Journalism and Publishing, he got a job freelance writing for SPORTbible while working in marketing before landing a full-time role at LADbible. Unfortunately, he's unhealthily obsessed with Manchester United, which takes its toll on his mental and physical health. Daily.

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