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New bedroom trend 'sploshing' is getting massively popular on the internet

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Published 09:36 5 May 2024 GMT+1

New bedroom trend 'sploshing' is getting massively popular on the internet

This takes getting spicy in the sheets to another level

Jess Battison

Jess Battison

Featured Image Credit: Getty Stock Images

Topics: Food And Drink, Sex and Relationships, Dating trends

Jess Battison
Jess Battison

Jess is a Senior Journalist with a love of all things pop culture. Her main interests include asking everyone in the office what they're having for tea, waiting for a new series of The Traitors and losing her voice at a Beyoncé concert. She graduated with a first in Journalism from City, University of London in 2021.

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With the bank holiday on the horizon, you might have a little extra time to spend with your partner.

So, thinking of that, now maybe seems like a good time to try out something new,? You know, like a spicy bit of extra-curricular.

And thankfully, there’s plenty of dating and relationship trends to try out. Because amid those not so nice ones, there’s a rather naughty one – the good kind.

But you might want to make sure the washing machine is ready for this one as the popular ‘sploshing’ is about to get messy.

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It was previously reported the hashtag of ‘sploshing’ had racked up over a whopping seven million views on TikTok in a year with active communities across Instagram, Reddit and X.

So, in explaining what on earth this (rather wet-sounding) word means, let’s go back to basics.

It's not the cleanest thing. (Getty Stock Photo)
It's not the cleanest thing. (Getty Stock Photo)

Psychologist at Onward and Outward Center for Inclusive Therapy and Wellness, Lana Holmes says the term ‘splosh’ first gained traction back in 1989.

This was because of a magazine of the same name (Splosh!) that covered the trend but also other types of fetishes – mostly those classed as wet and messy (WAM).

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And it later transitioned into a video production site, gaining more and more popularity over the years.

Now, let’s get down and messy, here’s what it actually is. Sploshing is ‘a fetish in which people derive sexual arousal and pleasure from being covered in food products and beverages’.

Holmes adds: “For some people, it’s very pleasurable, as well as liberating.”

Ayesha Hussain, co-creator of Pass The Porn and founder of The Violet, also explains: "There are aspects of the mouth being a vessel that are inherently sexual.

One for the foodies? (Getty stock)
One for the foodies? (Getty stock)

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"It opens, it’s moist, and when you get aroused, your mouth opens more and gets more lubricated."

If sploshing sounds like your kind of thing, you can really start where you want and when you want. “It can be anything: spaghetti, cucumbers, chocolate, etc,” Ayesha says.

“Watch every movement, taste every smell, imagine their saliva accumulating, and go from there!”

Kink educator Darla Delour told Glamour: "It’s not about using vegetables as dildos, nor is it adding a splash of whipped cream to your body to spice things up in the bedroom." She says that sploshing is basically just getting excited about seeing or playing with a lot of food in a sexual context.

As always, it’s important not to kink shame people just because you might not be into it. As long as it's consensual, legal and not breaking any major ethical boundaries, then it's fair game.

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If this sounds like a decent use of your BBQ leftovers, then off you go.

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