Sex expert explains popular 'cuckqueaning' bedroom trend that people can't understand

For better or worse, people are now extremely comfortable sharing what goes on in their bedroom with the whole world.

The days of the much-maligned missionary position are long gone, and people are now inventing new terms and positions that our ancestors might never have thought possible.

Whether it's hamstering, hotwifing, or the 'Bob the Builder' trend, people are getting extremely creative both in the bedroom. Perhaps the most common change, certainly among couples, is the concept of sharing your relationship with other people. You only need to tune in to Channel 4 after the watershed to see examples of couples swinging or trying out something different in their relationship, and it seems as if sex experts are always happy to encourage it.

While the term 'cuck' might be deemed derogatory in some parts of the world, others are embracing the bedroom kink and sharing their experiences of watching their partners in bed with another person.

However, perhaps due to the negative connotations associated with the term 'cuckhold', one woman is keener to define herself as a 'cuckquean', despite cuckqueen being right there and readily available.

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She wrote to The Chicago Reader: "I’m interested in watching my husband pleasure and be pleasured by another woman in a purely physical way. I’m not interested in being 'cheated on.'

"No flirty texts, no unsanctioned coffee dates. I’ve read accounts of women who are turned on by the humiliation and insecurity of their partner being with others, often women the husband knows 'in real life,' either through work or through social life. In my case, I would rather my husband not even know the name of the other woman.

"And he would only be able to sleep with her with my consent, and I would want to be 'in control' of the situation. So, what does that make me?"

And now, a sex expert has helped to clarify exactly what a cuckquean is, for those who are wondering.

According to Venus, host of The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast, cuckholds and cuckqueans aren't just into seeing their partners have sex with another person, but they also 'want their partners to humiliate and degrade them'.

She said in response to the above question: "Cuckolding and hotwifing have a really wide spectrum of practices and dynamics.

"Some cucks are submissive and get into degradation, and some cucks really aren’t subs or into degradation at all.

So that's what that chair is for (Getty Stock)

"I don’t see why hot-husbanding/cuckqueaning can’t be just as varied. Humiliation, submission, and degradation don’t have to be involved!”

She then goes on to explain how she could stay in control of the situation and ensure that things don't escalate on her husband's side.

She said: “There are a lot more men out there looking for casual sex than there are women, which makes WTCAI’s fantasy difficult to pull off.

"But I know a woman whose wife wanted to be blindfolded and then have a group of women come in—all strangers to her—and go down on her. Not an easy fantasy to pull off either!

"So, they hired a sex worker to facilitate things, and it was amazing. Perhaps this would be an ideal solution—hiring a sex worker—because then WTCAI would be in total control.”