One flirting technique almost always works, psychologists say

While some people out there are natural flirts, a lot of us could do with a helping hand - or risk turning people away with our god awful one-liners.

One of the professors involved in the research, Mons Bendixen, explained: "Individual differences in age, religiosity, extroversion, personal attractiveness and preferences for short-term sexual relationships had little or no effect on how effective respondents considered the various flirting tactics to be."

Now, before we get into the techniques, Leif Edward Ottesen Kennair – a professor at NTNU’s Department of Psychology – described what flirting actually is.

"Men and women both flirt to get the attention of a desired partner, and perhaps to achieve a sexual or romantic result from it."

Kennair continued: "What’s most effective depends on your gender and whether the purpose of the flirtation is a long-term or short-term relationship."

For example, the study found that people consider signals that you're sexually available to be the most effective for women who are looking for a short-term fling.

But a friendly hug or kiss on the cheek won't cut it in this context – women looking to seal the deal will need to signal to the potential partner that they're available either by moving closer or making body and eye contact.

Without overstepping any boundaries, of course.

On the flipside of this, men looking for long-term relationships will need to show 'signs of generosity and a willingness to commit'.

But there's one weapon that works across the board to some extent and that tactic is humour.

Kennair explained: "People think that humour, or being able to make another person laugh, is most effective for men who are looking for a long-term relationship.

"It’s least effective for women who are looking for a one-night stand. But laughing or giggling at the other person’s jokes is an effective flirtation tactic for both sexes."

Rebecca Burch, a co-author from SUNY Oswego, added: "It is not only effective to be funny, but for women it is very important that you show your potential partner that you think they are funny."

So there you have it – if you want to bag a date and you're not sure about your flirting skills, try channelling your inner comedian.

Just don't go telling any dad jokes or it might have the opposite effect.